• I REAL AM TIRED OF DEALING WITH 42 YEARS OS HUSBAND'S ALCOHOLISM?

    IN HIS MIND -HE HAS BEEN VERY GOOD TO ME WITH PAYING THE BILLS.DID NOT WANT ME TO WORK AND WHEN I DID BECAUSE HE WAS DISABLED WITH DEPRESSION AND BOUGHT THINGS THAT OTHERWISE COULD NOT AFFORD- WAS MEANINGLESS. ALWAYS SAID YOUR MONEY IS YOURS BUT WHEN HE IS DRINK I AM REMINDED OF HOW SELFISH I WAS .AND AM . . HE HAS BEEN TO THE BOTTOM AND SICK SO... show more
    IN HIS MIND -HE HAS BEEN VERY GOOD TO ME WITH PAYING THE BILLS.DID NOT WANT ME TO WORK AND WHEN I DID BECAUSE HE WAS DISABLED WITH DEPRESSION AND BOUGHT THINGS THAT OTHERWISE COULD NOT AFFORD- WAS MEANINGLESS. ALWAYS SAID YOUR MONEY IS YOURS BUT WHEN HE IS DRINK I AM REMINDED OF HOW SELFISH I WAS .AND AM . . HE HAS BEEN TO THE BOTTOM AND SICK SO MANY TIMES. HE CAN'T CALL ME ANYMORE NAMES ANYMORE THAT IT HURTS. I USED TO CRY ,HURT MYSELF BECAUSE OF OF HIS NAMES- SO DEPRESSED BUT HE COULD NEVER SEE HE WAS THE CAUSE CALLING ME NAMES AND ALL. I FINALLY WOKE UP AND REALIZED -HIS PROBLEM. HE GETS SO SICK-ONE TIME 10 MONTHS STRAIGHT AT AGE 72 -PASSING A KIDNEY STONE-BUT NOTHING EVER GETS THRU. WITH 2 GLASSES OF WINE NOW I AM REMINDED OF HOW MUCH I COST HIM (KNOWING IT HURTS BECAUSE OF MY FAMILY HISTORY.WHENEVER I EXPRESS CONCERN IT STARTS AGAIN TO SHUT UP. DO THAT - HE DOES LIKE THAT EITHER. I CANNOT GO TO MEETINGS. ANY THOUGHTS APPRECIATED. DID GOD GIVE ME TO DEAL WITH TO LEARN SOMETHING/ I DID LEARN TO DEAL WITH - NO NAME CALLING HURTS ANYMORE.
    4 answers · Mental Health · 3 years ago
  • Married to an alcoholic depressive for 41 years- how to deal anymore?

    I thought I married the a man of my dreams- well you know how love blinds you. Had a beautiful daughter together.The thing is-after years of trying and be told to shut up-I did. Now that is disturbing him too.I learned so much of my depression was from him.I made a promise to my son that after so many depressions to the point of trying to commit... show more
    I thought I married the a man of my dreams- well you know how love blinds you. Had a beautiful daughter together.The thing is-after years of trying and be told to shut up-I did. Now that is disturbing him too.I learned so much of my depression was from him.I made a promise to my son that after so many depressions to the point of trying to commit suicide I would never go there again.I realized his problem was not mine but his. Geez at 72 you'd think his Daddy wanting a daughter you'd get over it. To me it looks like slow suicide. He yells at the tv for how pussy people are but I think he is the one who can't accept reality.Everything everyone sucks to him.I have my resentments for so many things- holidays and birthdays ruined - or he can't remember even to this day. he will not admit to times he tried to choke or hit me or daughter.He absolutely hate life.- I love life .I have went thru 2
    3 answers · Psychology · 4 years ago
  • I have a Traditional apple head neutered cat and a 10 yr old nrtured male25 pounds.I am considering a female t?

    a female traditional applehead siamese.The question I have is would the male siamese accept a female? The male netered siamese had been aggressive to other male nuetered cat until he was neutered for about a year. Had old ill male neutered cat that both accepted but am curious of those with siamese cats with experience what they think of adding a... show more
    a female traditional applehead siamese.The question I have is would the male siamese accept a female? The male netered siamese had been aggressive to other male nuetered cat until he was neutered for about a year. Had old ill male neutered cat that both accepted but am curious of those with siamese cats with experience what they think of adding a female to the mix?
    2 answers · Cats · 5 years ago
  • Downton Abbey how didd Carlyle die?

    Was catching up with xfinity watchathon, watched all but last show of season 2- what happened to Carlyle-the man engaged to Mary?
    Was catching up with xfinity watchathon, watched all but last show of season 2- what happened to Carlyle-the man engaged to Mary?
    1 answer · Other - Society & Culture · 5 years ago
  • I live next door to a locally well known animal rescuer that does not even let her 5 dogs outside. I feel bad?

    -I feel bad for the dogs but what can I say?She has 5 dogs- seldom let outside. Have seen carpeting replaced at least 2 x . The community thinks she is great but I am the one who witnesses all this.Mind my own business??
    -I feel bad for the dogs but what can I say?She has 5 dogs- seldom let outside. Have seen carpeting replaced at least 2 x . The community thinks she is great but I am the one who witnesses all this.Mind my own business??
    1 answer · Other - Pets · 5 years ago
  • When was mission oak furniture made in usa?

    bought a hand stitched yarn embroidered piece in old oak frame with railroad stamp on it.how to determine age?
    bought a hand stitched yarn embroidered piece in old oak frame with railroad stamp on it.how to determine age?
    2 answers · Decorating & Remodeling · 5 years ago
  • HOW TO FIND YAHOO ANSWER CONTACTS?

    how do I find yahoo answer contacts?
    how do I find yahoo answer contacts?
    2 answers · Yahoo Answers · 5 years ago
  • HOW DIFFICULT HAS IT BEEN FOR OTHERS IN THE DESCION TO END PET'S LIFE?

    iT IS HARD TO FACE THE DESION TO END A PET'S LIFE.i HAVE HAD A RESCUE PUG DOG.sHE HAS GONE LAME IN BACK LEGS.sTILL ENJOYS FOOD.cANNOT CONTROL ELIMINATION- IN A DIAPER BUT HOW,WHEN HER EYES ARE BRIGHT DO YOU SAY THAT i CAN END HER LIFE ON THIS EARTH.? i AM HAVING difficult time.
    iT IS HARD TO FACE THE DESION TO END A PET'S LIFE.i HAVE HAD A RESCUE PUG DOG.sHE HAS GONE LAME IN BACK LEGS.sTILL ENJOYS FOOD.cANNOT CONTROL ELIMINATION- IN A DIAPER BUT HOW,WHEN HER EYES ARE BRIGHT DO YOU SAY THAT i CAN END HER LIFE ON THIS EARTH.? i AM HAVING difficult time.
    5 answers · Birds · 5 years ago
  • At 62 I finally got glasses-suddendly I need expensive glaucoma test-did that no problem now the clinic need?

    test.did that no problem.now I need a field of visions test that i had before but now the specialist "is concerned" but can't get an answer from assistant other than dr has concern and will work with me for cost since I don't have insurance.added info when I went for glaucoma test charge was 583 dollars but I said I called for... show more
    test.did that no problem.now I need a field of visions test that i had before but now the specialist "is concerned" but can't get an answer from assistant other than dr has concern and will work with me for cost since I don't have insurance.added info when I went for glaucoma test charge was 583 dollars but I said I called for charge of glaucoma test it was $200 and dr waived fee since I di not have insurance. Does anyone sense a scam here?But you know how they work the fear factor.I looked online for causes of Peripheral visual problems and if I have that problem there is no cure anyway-a problem of aging eyess which will limit me.Any thoughts?
    4 answers · Heart Diseases · 6 years ago
  • What to do when you can't figure out potters name on vase?

    got 2 vases similar wheat design -signature is similar.signature looks wood hchalk or viloochchalc or k .I have searched every which way I can think of. They are white based ,round with a single wheat design.One is white with black mixed into pottery.Went thru every ebay page,potters guide online,seagate carolina potters.Any help or suggestions... show more
    got 2 vases similar wheat design -signature is similar.signature looks wood hchalk or viloochchalc or k .I have searched every which way I can think of. They are white based ,round with a single wheat design.One is white with black mixed into pottery.Went thru every ebay page,potters guide online,seagate carolina potters.Any help or suggestions appreciated.
    2 answers · Sculpture · 6 years ago
  • Got 2 year non neutered male Siamese,got neutered,continues to attack other male neutered cat 3x his size?

    Got along with other nuetered cat denailed(before I had him)Do Siamese getalong with other cats if it was the only cat before I got him?
    Got along with other nuetered cat denailed(before I had him)Do Siamese getalong with other cats if it was the only cat before I got him?
    4 answers · Cats · 6 years ago
  • Anyone out there who is married in name only?Dead marriage but can't leave?

    The sex life is gone -his anger kills you but you can't leave because you can't support yourself or it's too late in life.Drinks too much and takes bendryl to sleep,always angry about mostly women.Had to give up many jobs because of him but he don't see his problems.Thinks he is so Strong but cannot handle pets ,people or real life
    The sex life is gone -his anger kills you but you can't leave because you can't support yourself or it's too late in life.Drinks too much and takes bendryl to sleep,always angry about mostly women.Had to give up many jobs because of him but he don't see his problems.Thinks he is so Strong but cannot handle pets ,people or real life
    6 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 6 years ago
  • Why is it long term marriages are soemtimes great and some are contentious?

    38 years -in the beginning great-as time goes on after the children are grown expected to be the same but I feel wanting to be more.He has been very resentful -at the same time resented his job to be being disabled to depression.Very complicated life sn't it?
    38 years -in the beginning great-as time goes on after the children are grown expected to be the same but I feel wanting to be more.He has been very resentful -at the same time resented his job to be being disabled to depression.Very complicated life sn't it?
    1 answer · Marriage & Divorce · 6 years ago
  • 7 years of attending Methodist church and I see Pastor slowly,no more robes,greeters,liturgist,choir and les?

    ,wanting no more choir,less mention of Jesus.Now wanting to buy asbestos ridden school,wanting $20 more a week from every member.I had to say enough and stop going.Has anyone out there seen this pattern in their church?
    ,wanting no more choir,less mention of Jesus.Now wanting to buy asbestos ridden school,wanting $20 more a week from every member.I had to say enough and stop going.Has anyone out there seen this pattern in their church?
    2 answers · Religion & Spirituality · 6 years ago
  • We have rented for 25 years and the landlord ignores so many obvios simple repairs such as windows that don't?

    work anymore.He is cheap in any repairs that the insurance company saYS FIX OR WON'T INSURE ANYMORE.Recently with all the rain and just last year with new ceiling and gutters -the rain pours in -had him him come over and all I got was well we had allot of rain and his problems.Emphasize "his problems"We feel if we complain too much ... show more
    work anymore.He is cheap in any repairs that the insurance company saYS FIX OR WON'T INSURE ANYMORE.Recently with all the rain and just last year with new ceiling and gutters -the rain pours in -had him him come over and all I got was well we had allot of rain and his problems.Emphasize "his problems"We feel if we complain too much he'll raise the rent to where we can't afford it so he can get more $ from the next renters..I fear when he talks about selling his rentals so we don't complain but the house falls further into disrepair and he don't care. Stuck
    1 answer · Renting & Real Estate · 7 years ago
  • Why do people think breeding a mixed breed dog is good and pay good money for a socalled mutt?

    for it but many mix breeds in a shelter is okay to euthanize? Mixed breeds can be very good and many of known breeds were mixed to get a standard but I can't understand today's world of breeding a so called hybrid and calling it a Designer breed for hundreds of dollars.
    for it but many mix breeds in a shelter is okay to euthanize? Mixed breeds can be very good and many of known breeds were mixed to get a standard but I can't understand today's world of breeding a so called hybrid and calling it a Designer breed for hundreds of dollars.
    5 answers · Dogs · 7 years ago
  • Has anyone done affiliate programs? what about taxes?

    Yahoo answers had no answers.Would like to hear from someone who has done this
    Yahoo answers had no answers.Would like to hear from someone who has done this
    1 answer · Other - Taxes · 7 years ago