• Why is my cats tail getting bent even more?

    My cat is medium haired with a bushy tail. I've had him since he was born he will be 5 in july. I don't know when I noticed but one day when he was a bit older I ran my fingers across his tail and felt the tip was bent. I looked up that some cats have bent tails so I thought nothing of it. But just now I was feeling through his tail again... show more
    My cat is medium haired with a bushy tail. I've had him since he was born he will be 5 in july. I don't know when I noticed but one day when he was a bit older I ran my fingers across his tail and felt the tip was bent. I looked up that some cats have bent tails so I thought nothing of it. But just now I was feeling through his tail again and his tail is even more bent. Like a zigzag. He does go outside sometimes but usually only at night when it's more quiet and the longest he will stay out is by early morning. (There's a hole in the garage that he knows about so he's able to get in anytime he wants to.) I don't know if something been smashing his tail because it doesn't hurt him when touched and he's never hid away from us ( Like a cat whose been hurt may do until he feels better). Any ideas as to how its even more bent than before?
    2 answers · Cats · 1 day ago
  • Why do I keep misplacing things in weird places and how do I stop this?

    Please dont leave a comment like "Just look after your stuff better then you wouldnt loose it." because if I could I would flip the bird -_- Anyways I tend to loose my things in weird places. I do have spots for them but heres what I mean. I'm on my phone scrolling facebook and decided that I want to eat. I go to the cupboard and... show more
    Please dont leave a comment like "Just look after your stuff better then you wouldnt loose it." because if I could I would flip the bird -_- Anyways I tend to loose my things in weird places. I do have spots for them but heres what I mean. I'm on my phone scrolling facebook and decided that I want to eat. I go to the cupboard and realise the phone in still in my hand. I put it down in the cupboard really quick to take a bowl out but the second i pull it out thats when my mom calls me from the livingroom to go do something for her. I leave, do it, put the food in the bowl and watch some tv. Thats when i realize my phone is not in my pocket. I go back to every room and check on top and under every table and its no where to be found. Why? because I forgot it in the cupboard when I had to quickly leave to do something else. I do this to a lot of my things. I put it down because I need both hands in order to do something or put it down in a random spot because someone needs me right away and then I cant find it because its nowhere where I would usually put my stuff. It drives me mad how do I stop this!? oh yeah and I've learned to just quickly put down anything anywhere when im needed because my mom would get mad at me when I was little when I was asked to do something and was holding something so I wouldnt loose it so she would yell at me to just put it down anywhere instead of letting me actually put it away.
    3 answers · Mental Health · 5 days ago
  • What's an illness that can cause mental illness?

    I used to know an old lady who had a mentally disabled son. My mom had told me that he was born normal until he got really sick at around 2 years old and it stopped his brain development. ( basically he still has the mind of a 2 year old). What kind of sickness can do that to a child?
    I used to know an old lady who had a mentally disabled son. My mom had told me that he was born normal until he got really sick at around 2 years old and it stopped his brain development. ( basically he still has the mind of a 2 year old). What kind of sickness can do that to a child?
    3 answers · Mental Health · 2 weeks ago
  • How to teach my dog to stop peeing in the cat litter?

    At first I thought it was a good idea when he started doing it because then if we didn't see him waiting by the door he could just go in the litter. But he's a big dog so when he goes it's a lot of pee compared.to a cat. It soaks up a lot of the litter so I end up having to buy more a lot sooner. I also noticed that he really only goes... show more
    At first I thought it was a good idea when he started doing it because then if we didn't see him waiting by the door he could just go in the litter. But he's a big dog so when he goes it's a lot of pee compared.to a cat. It soaks up a lot of the litter so I end up having to buy more a lot sooner. I also noticed that he really only goes It's only right after one of the cats goes so he's getting rid of their scent with his pee. He also does the same with the other dog. If she pees anywhere she will sniff the exact same spot and pee right there. He is a year old so what would be the best way to get him to stop going in the cat litter?
    3 answers · Dogs · 2 weeks ago
  • How long should I wait until I re-apply to Mcdonalds?

    I worked at McDonald's from the end of 2015 to the start of 2017. I got fired because of a mistake i made in the register. I did find another job 3 months ago but I'm getting very little hours ( 9 hours a week) and I'm having trouble looking for a second job. Even in other fast food places. The problem is that all the McDonald's in... show more
    I worked at McDonald's from the end of 2015 to the start of 2017. I got fired because of a mistake i made in the register. I did find another job 3 months ago but I'm getting very little hours ( 9 hours a week) and I'm having trouble looking for a second job. Even in other fast food places. The problem is that all the McDonald's in this town and every town around us are owned by the same guy. I didn't want to do this but I need the extra hours and I want to find another job as fast as possible. Is there a chance that if I apply to McDonald's again ( not the same store I was at before.) will they allow it or is it still too soon and it will end up just being a lost cause?
    2 answers · Fast Food · 3 weeks ago
  • How do I get my brother to understand that running off at night is not right?

    He is 14 and has this bad habit of just getting out of the house when it's already dark and not telling anyone anything. And he has many excuses as to why he does this. My girlfriend and her brother were at the park, I needed to test my bike so I went riding with my friend a few blocks, (brother or sister) made me mad and I just needed some... show more
    He is 14 and has this bad habit of just getting out of the house when it's already dark and not telling anyone anything. And he has many excuses as to why he does this. My girlfriend and her brother were at the park, I needed to test my bike so I went riding with my friend a few blocks, (brother or sister) made me mad and I just needed some fresh air. He thinks its ok to just leave the house at 9 pm because he knows what he's doing. One time he left to go to a friend's party without telling anyone and didn't come back till 20 hours later. His excuse? I'm sorry I fell asleep I didn't mean to make anyone worry. We can't take anything away from him he doesn't have much. He just thinks that since he's more grown up he can go wherever he wants and has no idea why we get mad at him for it. I don't know what to do to help him understand that he can't be doing this. When I was 14 I rarely even stepped outside by myself in the daylight.
    4 answers · Family · 3 weeks ago
  • Which do you prefer?

    An old and sick cat or dog to be adopted to a family who can't afford to take it to the vet but will love it and keep it safe till it passes Or to have it stay in the shelter until it's uthinized?
    An old and sick cat or dog to be adopted to a family who can't afford to take it to the vet but will love it and keep it safe till it passes Or to have it stay in the shelter until it's uthinized?
    5 answers · Other - Pets · 4 weeks ago
  • How do I tell my mom to stop blasting the computer when I'm watching tv?

    My mom spends a lot of time on the computer watching videos on YouTube and Facebook. The desk computer is in the living room so its not too far from the computer. Whenever I'm on and watch something I always try to keep it down so anyone watching tv can still hear it. But whenever my mom gets on she thinks everything she watches is so much... show more
    My mom spends a lot of time on the computer watching videos on YouTube and Facebook. The desk computer is in the living room so its not too far from the computer. Whenever I'm on and watch something I always try to keep it down so anyone watching tv can still hear it. But whenever my mom gets on she thinks everything she watches is so much better than what anyone else is watching. And it seems like everytime she notices that we are watching something we really like especially a new episode she will blast the computer volume so loud that even hiring the tv doesn't work. And sometimes even make us come over to watch the videos with her. I've tried to tell her not now I'm watching this and she will get mad and say something like " Fine! I won't do anything for you guys anymore!" It's not like I'm never with her I always go with her grocery shopping which is almost every day. Is there any way to let her know that this type of behavior isn't right? ( Oh and I do sometimes watch videos with her too but I don't want to watch random videos with her every single times whenever she commands it.)
    10 answers · Family · 4 weeks ago
  • Does it make sence to be both gay and gender neutral?

    I had an ex friend who is gay but considers himself to be gender neutral. I don't mind someone being either of them but in order to be gay doesn't that make you a guy who likes other guys? When I asked him how he's a guy because he's a male who likes other males he just kept ignoring what I said and saying that he is not either a boy... show more
    I had an ex friend who is gay but considers himself to be gender neutral. I don't mind someone being either of them but in order to be gay doesn't that make you a guy who likes other guys? When I asked him how he's a guy because he's a male who likes other males he just kept ignoring what I said and saying that he is not either a boy or a girl. Idk I think that just contracts (might be the wrong word to use) eachother. And if anyone is thinking this no we are not no longer friends because he thinks I'm anti-gay or anti-anything. We are no longer friends because he is an adult (18) who expects to be treated like a spoiled brat, cries over every little thing for attention and then tried to bully my 14 year old brother and pretend like he has no idea what's going on. Sorry still kind of upset about it.
    9 answers · Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered · 1 month ago
  • How much should I save up for Disneyland?

    I'm trying to go to disneyland with my boyfriend ( been dating for 2 years) sometime this year. It'll be my first time so I have no idea how to do all this.I have 200 saved up in my savings but it's going to take awhile before it goes any higher because of low hours this month and maybe next. We are both 24 ( I'm almost). I'm... show more
    I'm trying to go to disneyland with my boyfriend ( been dating for 2 years) sometime this year. It'll be my first time so I have no idea how to do all this.I have 200 saved up in my savings but it's going to take awhile before it goes any higher because of low hours this month and maybe next. We are both 24 ( I'm almost). I'm hoping my parents are ok with it being just us because it'll be a lot more expensive to bring someone else. ( I'm gonna have to lie again about getting my own room). I think we should go for 2 days but if it's possible then maybe 3 days if our jobs allow us to. So with all that in mind about how much should we both have in order to go to Disneyland?
    1 answer · Amusement Parks · 1 month ago
  • Why does it annoy me when people end their comment on facebook with " have a nice day."?

    Does anyone else experience this? I know it's something very little but I've been seeing it a lot and it kinda gets on my nerves. I sometimes like to read comments on videos and such and will even sometimes read the replies if the comment is intristing enough. And I've seen more and more people even when arguing they will end it with a... show more
    Does anyone else experience this? I know it's something very little but I've been seeing it a lot and it kinda gets on my nerves. I sometimes like to read comments on videos and such and will even sometimes read the replies if the comment is intristing enough. And I've seen more and more people even when arguing they will end it with a unnecessarily extra pleasant greeting. Like for example: You had no right to correct me I'll beat you up so fast you wouldn't even know so have a wonderful evening./How about I shove your foot up your a**? I hope you have an amazing day./ If you had half a brain you would know that what I'm telling you is nothing but the truth so goodbye and have a good rest of the day. And they'll be like that with every comment they make doesn't matter if it's good or bad. I've tried to think of why this has become sort of a pet peeve but I can't figure out why. Any possible explanations for this?
    3 answers · Psychology · 1 month ago
  • Does anyone else have any siblings who are basically disasterouse slobs?

    I'de like to hear people with siblings who are like mine or even worse. Just so I don't feel like I'm the only person putting up with this crud. Basically my brother is someone who no one can stand living with. He is 22 and his plan in life is to live with my parents then after they die go live on the streets. He barely cleans up and if... show more
    I'de like to hear people with siblings who are like mine or even worse. Just so I don't feel like I'm the only person putting up with this crud. Basically my brother is someone who no one can stand living with. He is 22 and his plan in life is to live with my parents then after they die go live on the streets. He barely cleans up and if he does it usually means he's been doing drugs and needs to clean because he's too hyper to sit still. I can't keep any money in my purse because he will take it for cigarettes and get pissed off when it's empty. When he gets mad enough he punches the wall/breaks things then blames it on us for making him mad. If he's sick he will cough on us to try to make us sick.( he'll even blow his snot at the dog to watch them eat it off the floor. YUCK).He wakes up expecting his clothes to be next to him even though he hides his clothes. Almost every morning there's yelling because he doesn't want to wake up for work but we would rather argue with him to go to work than to let him get fired and stay home. So does this sound like anyone else's brother or sister?
    3 answers · Family · 1 month ago
  • Has anyone else been told " Dont get married" or "Don't have children?"?

    I've tried to look up sites that have others who experience and feel the same way I do about this but I can't seem to find anything other than non-parents who don't want kids expressing how they feel about others who look down at them for not wanting to have children. I've had plenty of people who have told me things like "... show more
    I've tried to look up sites that have others who experience and feel the same way I do about this but I can't seem to find anything other than non-parents who don't want kids expressing how they feel about others who look down at them for not wanting to have children. I've had plenty of people who have told me things like " Don't get married. It's not worth it." Or " Take my advice and don't have kids. They're too much to handle." But the thing is I DO want to get married and I DO want to have kids someday. To me that's like telling someone who likes to draw " Dont bother with trying to draw you'll never get a career with it." Does anyone else experience this to the point of just wanting to tell them " Well sorry it didn't work out for you but I'm gonna do what to do in my life." Has anyone ever had a good come back for those kind of sneer comments about marriage and kids?
    5 answers · Psychology · 1 month ago
  • What does it been to never find what you're looking for in your dreams?

    I've had this kind of dream lots of times. In fact the most recent was just last night. Where if I need to find something I'll never find it. Even if I just saw it and it landed or was set in an easy place to see I will instead find a bunch of random stuff and never find what I am looking for. What can this mean? Or is it nothing more than... show more
    I've had this kind of dream lots of times. In fact the most recent was just last night. Where if I need to find something I'll never find it. Even if I just saw it and it landed or was set in an easy place to see I will instead find a bunch of random stuff and never find what I am looking for. What can this mean? Or is it nothing more than just an exaduration of how untidy I am because I do have a habit of misplacing things.
    3 answers · Dream Interpretation · 1 month ago
  • How to tell family members to stop giving you a certain gift.?

    I may not actually take any advice unless I find it would actually work but it may help out anyone else in my situation. Ever since one of my relatives bought me a makeup set for Christmas when I was in High school I've been getting it every year by other relatives as well. I liked it back then because I used to wear make up more often and I... show more
    I may not actually take any advice unless I find it would actually work but it may help out anyone else in my situation. Ever since one of my relatives bought me a makeup set for Christmas when I was in High school I've been getting it every year by other relatives as well. I liked it back then because I used to wear make up more often and I liked that I had more colors to use. But now that I'm older I rarely wear make up but I still will get about 2-3 boxes of makeup every Christmas. I stopped wearing make up around 2012 so it's been a few years like this. It's gone to the point where most of the make up either ends up on the floor from falling out of the cabinet ( or when my sister doesn't put it away) or only really used for Halloween. I don't want to be rude about it but now I have so much make up and it just seems like such a waste. I also kinda feel like my family doesn't even know me to think that they have to spend idk 15 dollars on these make up sets when I'll be happy just getting a 5 dollar pack of Pokemon cards or even some pink fuzzy socks to keep my feet warm.
    18 answers · Makeup · 2 months ago
  • Which twas the night before Christmas special is this?

    I'm Not Talking About The Movie About The Mice And The Clock I used to have a night before Christmas special on vhs when I was little but I've never been able to find it anywhere else. I don't remember most of it all I remember was that there's a scene where the narrator is saying the poem but once he says not even a mouse you... show more
    I'm Not Talking About The Movie About The Mice And The Clock I used to have a night before Christmas special on vhs when I was little but I've never been able to find it anywhere else. I don't remember most of it all I remember was that there's a scene where the narrator is saying the poem but once he says not even a mouse you hear a voice calling out and it goes into a mouse hole where a mouse is stirring a pot of stew or something and he says " I'm a mouse and as you can see im stirring." There's a scene where someone or a couple people look into a room upstairs and you see gold magic stuff flying about and it makes all the toys come alive and the toys start singing and dancing. And then once they get to the end of the movie they continue on with the twas the night poem and im pretty sure the toys in Santa's bag move on their own and go to their rightful places under the tree and in the stockings. It Is Not The One Movie About The Mice And The Clock
    2 answers · Movies · 2 months ago
  • What do people think will happen after they've done something bad?

    I'm asking this more for people who do this ( unless you've gotten an answer from someone like this.). What I mean is say person 1 and person 2 get into a disagreement. Then once it seems like it's at least somewhat resolved person 2 decides to say something to purposefully make person 1 mad. What did they expect to happen after trying... show more
    I'm asking this more for people who do this ( unless you've gotten an answer from someone like this.). What I mean is say person 1 and person 2 get into a disagreement. Then once it seems like it's at least somewhat resolved person 2 decides to say something to purposefully make person 1 mad. What did they expect to happen after trying to make the other one mad? Or person 2 is mad at person 1 for some reason so they punch their back. What did they expect would happen after punching someone like that? Or even person 1 tells person 2 to not eat their food then once the time to eat it comes it's already all gone. What did they expect to happen once person 1 finds the food gone? And then person 2 is mad ( or madder) at person 1 even though they're the ones who did the impulsive action. What else did they think was going to happen!? ( this question is more out of curiosity than anything)
    3 answers · Psychology · 2 months ago
  • What causes people to randomly not want to eat certain foods?

    I know I get this but I never knew why this happens. I will be hungry but if it's a food that I've been eating for awhile ( like my mom will buy 4 bags of microwave burritos so we eat that about 10 times out of the month for lunch and dinner every month.) then I suddenly no longer want to eat even though I like it and I'm hungry. Or I... show more
    I know I get this but I never knew why this happens. I will be hungry but if it's a food that I've been eating for awhile ( like my mom will buy 4 bags of microwave burritos so we eat that about 10 times out of the month for lunch and dinner every month.) then I suddenly no longer want to eat even though I like it and I'm hungry. Or I will be eating something that I don't hate or really like then after a few bites I get very bored with it and just can't take anymore of it.
    1 answer · Diet & Fitness · 2 months ago
  • Does my mom have a right to me mad at me for telling others things she does that I don't like?

    For example if something happens and she doesn't like it she will stay quiet and act like everything is ok until she's alone with me and then kinda explodes on me like it's all my fault that it happened. Or if I want to do something but she doesn't like it she will pull me to the side and tell me why she doesn't like that idea... show more
    For example if something happens and she doesn't like it she will stay quiet and act like everything is ok until she's alone with me and then kinda explodes on me like it's all my fault that it happened. Or if I want to do something but she doesn't like it she will pull me to the side and tell me why she doesn't like that idea and sometimes will try to get me to tell her why I even started thinking like that because it makes me sound crazy. But if I tell anyone about it and she finds out then she gets mad at me because apparently anything she tells me that i dont like is for my ears only. And usually adding in if I tell everyone every time I take a poop too. It's like if I have anything negative to say about her in the slightest then I'm supposed to ignore it and bottle it up so that I don't make her look bad. Oh but if she has anything bad to say about me shell tell them even if I'm standing right next to her. And when she does ( she says more good things than bad but still) I always stay quiet and just let her. So does she have the right to basically keep my mouth zipped up if It makes her look bad in any way?
    3 answers · Family · 3 months ago