• Why do some people get annoyed and defend someone who has done something bad/illegal?

    What I mean is like for example someone breaks into someone s car but gets seen, the next day they see the same person and he ends up going to jail. Or someone goes crazy out in public because their on crack and someone calls the police on them. Or heck maybe the person they're defending was caught beating up their 2 year old.While a lot of... show more
    What I mean is like for example someone breaks into someone s car but gets seen, the next day they see the same person and he ends up going to jail. Or someone goes crazy out in public because their on crack and someone calls the police on them. Or heck maybe the person they're defending was caught beating up their 2 year old.While a lot of people will be happy that he s getting his punishment you will have the odd few who will say something like "D**n people should ve just minded their own business!" Or "If I find the person who locked him up I ll bust their teeth." It makes no sence they did something they should have never done and would have gotten mad if someone did the same thing to them or say the drugged up person goes crazy on them. So why would they defend it and get mad at the people who are stopping It?
    Law & Ethics · 7 hours ago
  • Why do people get annoyed and try to defend when someone gets caught doing something bad/illegal?

    What I mean is like for example someone breaks into someone s car but gets seen, the next day they see the same person and he ends up going to jail. Or someone goes crazy out in public because their on crack and someone calls the police on then. While a lot of people will be happy that he s getting his punishment you will have the odd few who will... show more
    What I mean is like for example someone breaks into someone s car but gets seen, the next day they see the same person and he ends up going to jail. Or someone goes crazy out in public because their on crack and someone calls the police on then. While a lot of people will be happy that he s getting his punishment you will have the odd few who will say something like "D**n people should ve just minded their own business!" Or "If I find the person who locked him up I ll bust their teeth." It makes no sence they did something they should have never done and would have gotten mad if someone did the same thing to them or say the drugged up person goes crazy on them. So why would they defend it and get mad at the people who are stopping It?
    Law & Ethics · 7 hours ago
  • Why do people get annoyed and try to defend when someone gets caught doing something bad/illegal?

    What I mean is like for example someone breaks into someone s car but gets seen, the next day they see the same person and he ends up going to jail. Or someone goes crazy out in public because their on crack and someone calls the police on then. While a lot of people will be happy that he s getting his punishment you will have the odd few who will... show more
    What I mean is like for example someone breaks into someone s car but gets seen, the next day they see the same person and he ends up going to jail. Or someone goes crazy out in public because their on crack and someone calls the police on then. While a lot of people will be happy that he s getting his punishment you will have the odd few who will say something like "D**n people should ve just minded their own business!" Or "If I find the person who locked him up I ll bust their teeth." It makes no sence they did something they should have never done and would have gotten mad if someone did the same thing to them or say the drugged up person goes crazy on them. So why would they defend it and get mad at the people who are stopping It?
    Law & Ethics · 7 hours ago
  • How do I tell my parents that I'm moving out with my boyfriend in August?

    No I'm some dumb 18 year old trying to run off with my boyfriend because I love him so much and want to be with him.It's not like that.I've been having a really hard time finding a job for the past 5 years. It took me 3 years just to get a job at McDonald's but after I got fired a year later it took me 6 months to find another job... show more
    No I'm some dumb 18 year old trying to run off with my boyfriend because I love him so much and want to be with him.It's not like that.I've been having a really hard time finding a job for the past 5 years. It took me 3 years just to get a job at McDonald's but after I got fired a year later it took me 6 months to find another job and that was only because I had family relation with this job. I'm 24 and I can't stand how things are going. I've been wanting to move out for a few years now but I can't because I was either jobless or was hardly making any money. And now it's almost worse because I'm only getting 6-9 hours ( at McDonald's I was at least getting 15-21)! My boyfriend is moving to a bigger town an hour away to save gas since he goes to college. I know once I find a job there I would be able to get more hours and will have a place to stay with him. We already found an apartment and we both liked it. He's even going to start working a 12 hour job at a warehouse just to make sure we have extra money. Problem is my parents don't agree with unmarried couples living together and the town/city we're going to live in isn't always safe (Its only bad if you affiliate with gangs/drugs which we dont). They see the town as the only people who would actually want to go there is if they want to get shot at. But this may be my only chance to start a better life. Plus it'll only be for 2 years until he's done with college then we'll move out to another safer town. What should I do?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 weeks ago
  • Are there any videos of sentai guys masterbating?

    No this isn't gay because I'm a girl. But there are plenty of videos of anime girls touching themselves but not guys without it being with another guy with them. Has anyone found anything where 1 guy is masterbating until he either finnishes, does it with a girl or for some reason has to stop?
    No this isn't gay because I'm a girl. But there are plenty of videos of anime girls touching themselves but not guys without it being with another guy with them. Has anyone found anything where 1 guy is masterbating until he either finnishes, does it with a girl or for some reason has to stop?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 month ago
  • Why do people agree to buy something from you and then bail from it?

    What I mean is like say you have a jewelry box you no longer want. You offer to sale it online and someone is intristed. You chat and they agree to meet at a certain place at a certain time. The time passes and you wait. You check the messages and let you know your there but they don't answer back. After an hour you just head back home.... show more
    What I mean is like say you have a jewelry box you no longer want. You offer to sale it online and someone is intristed. You chat and they agree to meet at a certain place at a certain time. The time passes and you wait. You check the messages and let you know your there but they don't answer back. After an hour you just head back home. They'll just message you once they arrive. But the whole day goes by and not even one message from the buyer. Why do they go through the whole process of planning and agreeing like they really do want the item and then just bail on it without even a simple "Sorry changed my mind" ?
    1 answer · Polls & Surveys · 1 month ago
  • What should I do of my parents decide to physically keep me from moving out?

    I really want to move out with my boyfriend in August. Before anyone says anything about it we are both 24 and have been dating for 2 years. I don't like the way things are at home it drives me nuts but I can't say anything about it or my mom will guilt trip me and make me feel bad for anything I say about it. I can't find another job in... show more
    I really want to move out with my boyfriend in August. Before anyone says anything about it we are both 24 and have been dating for 2 years. I don't like the way things are at home it drives me nuts but I can't say anything about it or my mom will guilt trip me and make me feel bad for anything I say about it. I can't find another job in this town so I'm making less than 200 a week. Moving out to a bigger town will be great for me but my mom doesn't like the idea of 2 unmarried people living together ( idk about my dad). My mom has told me a couple times that I better not even think about living with my boyfriend.I'm 24 they can't really stop me. But a few days ago I was arguing with my brother just before heading to the store with my mom and I told him that he will be happy because I'm moving out. That's when she litteraly blocked me from the door and gave me a look to demand an explanation. She wouldn't budge until I told her that I wasn't actually moving. But that scares me now. What if when I tell her that I'm moving with my boyfriend she gets mad and drags me to my room so I can't escape? She's much stronger than me so it's not impossible for her to do. She doesn't want me to live with my boyfriend because she's afraid that I'll get pregnant and he will end up leaving me and she expects me to just wait at home until I either get married or save enough money to move into my own house. What should I do?
    10 answers · Family · 2 months ago
  • How do I tell my 14 year old brother that he can't act like an adult?

    I'm 23 but I'm still living with my parents (hoping to move out soon). My brother thinks he can go wherever he feels like and do what he wants even if we tell him otherwise. Whenever I try to talk to him about it he just says " Why do I have to stop? You do it all the time!?" So now I'm thinking that he thinks that whatever I... show more
    I'm 23 but I'm still living with my parents (hoping to move out soon). My brother thinks he can go wherever he feels like and do what he wants even if we tell him otherwise. Whenever I try to talk to him about it he just says " Why do I have to stop? You do it all the time!?" So now I'm thinking that he thinks that whatever I do he should be able to do as well. How do I tell him that I can do these things like go on spontaniouse trips with my boyfriend ( I let my parents know before going) or go for a walk at night ( I leave a note) because I'm an adult but he can't?
    6 answers · Family · 2 months ago
  • How do I get my 17 year old sister to STOP SINGING!?

    Ok imagine someone with a monotone voice and a speech imedement constantly singing everyday. That's what I'm dealing with everyday and it drives me nuts! She thinks she's singing but it seriously sounds like someone is saying UUUUUUUUUUUHHHHHHHH. And it doesn't help that she won't do ANYTHING without having to listen to music!... show more
    Ok imagine someone with a monotone voice and a speech imedement constantly singing everyday. That's what I'm dealing with everyday and it drives me nuts! She thinks she's singing but it seriously sounds like someone is saying UUUUUUUUUUUHHHHHHHH. And it doesn't help that she won't do ANYTHING without having to listen to music! Doing the dishes or cleaning? Turns on the radio. Doing homework? Music. Relaxing? Music. Trying to sleep? Music! And she just HAS to sing to every song she hears! I've tried to tell her nicely "please just stop singing." "Can you just not have the music on right now?" And I've tried to be firm and mean "Stop Singing! It's annoying!" But she just says "Its my body I can do what I want with it." -_- What's the best way to just keep her quiet more often? Should I blast my music and just sing worse than I already do? I've already tried recording her but that does nothing but give me the omg I can't deal with you right now face and if I keep bugging her about it she gets mad and runs to the bathroom to watch herself cry in front of the mirror....idk why she does that.
    1 answer · Singing · 2 months ago
  • What can I do get my house cleaned up faster?

    I'm 23 but living with my parents. I'm hoping to move out sometime this year. For a long time the house has been dirty enough that if a cop came in when I was young I would have been sent to another home. I used to be lazy when I was younger but I couldn't stand cleaning when my brother with anger issues would just throw everything on... show more
    I'm 23 but living with my parents. I'm hoping to move out sometime this year. For a long time the house has been dirty enough that if a cop came in when I was young I would have been sent to another home. I used to be lazy when I was younger but I couldn't stand cleaning when my brother with anger issues would just throw everything on the floor or throw things in another room. Because of this my mom gave up cleaning. Instead she just makes a mess, tells us to clean up the house and then goes to sleep. Ive tried to ask her for help but she gets mad saying she's too tired .We did get help from relatives but it never stayed clean. If something gets lost in the house my mom will just buy another. We have so many clothes because people would give us their unwanted clothes and then my mom wouldn't let us throw out our old clothes because " We can wear them in the house". Sometimes they find free stuff and just bring them in the house. It doesnt help that we dont have much storage space for anything. No attic or basement. Even the bathrooms don't have any drawers. My other brother and sister refuse to clean. If they do it's extra slow or they fight over anything so they can stop cleaning. The one with anger issues is a slob. Then gets angry at us for not keeping his things clean. My dad doesn't clean cause he works long hours and it's not his job to clean up. I've tried to keep the house kept up but with everyone making a mess and I'm the only one cleaning I can't keep up at all!
    9 answers · Family · 2 months ago
  • Why does my mom give us the silent treatment when we ask to do something?

    Can we go to the park with a friend? Can we spend the night? Can I go eat out with (cousins name). Regular questions that need a yes or no answer or at least a " go ask your father/mother". But most times when we ask something like this to my mom she kind of just gives the silent treatment. Acts like she didn't hear what we said. If we... show more
    Can we go to the park with a friend? Can we spend the night? Can I go eat out with (cousins name). Regular questions that need a yes or no answer or at least a " go ask your father/mother". But most times when we ask something like this to my mom she kind of just gives the silent treatment. Acts like she didn't hear what we said. If we wait and keep asking to get an answer she will usually brush us off by saying " I don't know yet!". But what really gets to us is when we decide to make the decision for ourselves. Sometimes if we do go do it she will get mad and say " Why did you go!? I never said you could go! And now you're in trouble!" And sometimes if we decide not to go she will see us still home and be like " Oh I thought you were supposed to go somewhere today?" "I would've been ok with it." The part that hurts us the most is when she gets silent with us and then instead of saying something like " You didn't wash the dishes like I told you for a few days so you're not going." Oh no she will rub it in our faces and be more like " Did you wash the dishes like I told you to? N...O. that spells NO! So are you going to go with you're friends today? N...O! That means NO!" Why!? Why does she do this!!?
    2 answers · Family · 2 months ago
  • What should I say to my mom when she makes this snarky comment?

    We don't really usually do much. Most of the time we just stay home and my mom kinda likes it that way because then she knows we are safe and she doesn't have to get up to go anywhere to get us back home. So we are all stuck together a lot. When we talk to friends either by the phone or messaging them we usually run out of things to talk... show more
    We don't really usually do much. Most of the time we just stay home and my mom kinda likes it that way because then she knows we are safe and she doesn't have to get up to go anywhere to get us back home. So we are all stuck together a lot. When we talk to friends either by the phone or messaging them we usually run out of things to talk about and will either tell them something that happened in the house or what we or someone in the house is doing at that exact moment. And my mom likes to add in something like "Do you have to tell them everything!? Do you also tell them when you scratch your butt?" It's super annoying and I think even rude. We don't really do anything what are we supposed to talk about! I know whenever my mom talks to other people she doesnt usually talk about what's going on at home she just sits there and listens quietly. I can't think of what to say to her to let her know that it's not wrong to talk to others about what we are doing at home and her side comments about it are unnecessary.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • There are ants in my cats grave?

    My cat got sick about 3 weeks ago and died shortly afterwards. We think he ate something poisonous because he was healthy not too long before that. But we placed him in a bag ( no we didn't hold the bag with him in it like trash either. He was placed in and carried out) and burried him next to our grapevines. I couldn't remember how far deep... show more
    My cat got sick about 3 weeks ago and died shortly afterwards. We think he ate something poisonous because he was healthy not too long before that. But we placed him in a bag ( no we didn't hold the bag with him in it like trash either. He was placed in and carried out) and burried him next to our grapevines. I couldn't remember how far deep a pet should be but the dirt got so hard it was almost impossible to dig even with a shovel so we had to stop just below knee deep. Today I went to visit his grave again and saw ants coming out of it. I wasn't sure how to feel I know that's part of life the ants are only doing what they do to survive but is this something normal and just part of decomposition, did he just happen to be burried near an ant colony or was it because of the bag?
    7 answers · Cats · 2 months ago
  • How do I get over my fear of going too fast?

    I don't like most carnival rides because they go too fast. I didn't realise how bad this was until I went to the moutains yesterday with my bf and his friends, we got some plastic sleds and went sledding. I tried to sled twice but before even going down that far I freaked out and had to jump off. I found sledding on my butt though being a... show more
    I don't like most carnival rides because they go too fast. I didn't realise how bad this was until I went to the moutains yesterday with my bf and his friends, we got some plastic sleds and went sledding. I tried to sled twice but before even going down that far I freaked out and had to jump off. I found sledding on my butt though being a bit too slow for me was still more fun. I don't get to do things like that too often so most of my days is just sitting still in my house. When I go too fast ( even if someone is speeding on a highway) my heart starts beating fast and feels like my chest is empty, I can't breathe and start panicking. I'm not sure how I got like this. The earliest I can remember feeling like that was being about 5 years old and my parents pushing me high on the swing and im freaking out while they kept pushing me to the same height. How do I get over this fear so I can have fun with everyone else?
    3 answers · Psychology · 2 months ago
  • What happens to the puppies from dog breeders who don't get adopted?

    I'm not talking about puppy mills or people who give their pets away because their female had a litter. I mean the breeders who have papers to proove that their dogs are fully bred, give them their shots, have expensive re-homing fees and actually check the buyers home to make sure the puppy is suitable for them. Even if they are responsible... show more
    I'm not talking about puppy mills or people who give their pets away because their female had a litter. I mean the breeders who have papers to proove that their dogs are fully bred, give them their shots, have expensive re-homing fees and actually check the buyers home to make sure the puppy is suitable for them. Even if they are responsible breeders is it still common for them to dump them in shelters even though they spent their time and money to make sure they are ready for a good home? Or do most of those breeders actually keep the males and females apart until the left over puppies who are now fully grown do find a good home?
    17 answers · Dogs · 3 months ago
  • Someone won't let my boyfriend see his missing kitten.?

    About a few days ago my boyfriend's kitten (a litter from my cat. I know she's getting spayed no need to state the obviouse.) Was stolen by a family member and then dumped out in the country side. We have been doing what we can to find her. Posting her pics on the internet, checking the shelters and making flyers. Yesterday someone texted... show more
    About a few days ago my boyfriend's kitten (a litter from my cat. I know she's getting spayed no need to state the obviouse.) Was stolen by a family member and then dumped out in the country side. We have been doing what we can to find her. Posting her pics on the internet, checking the shelters and making flyers. Yesterday someone texted him saying that they might have found his kitten and has been feeding her and even sent him a few pictures. She is a generic black cat so it's hard to tell by a picture if it really is her or not. He said he would meet up with him at a location to see if it was her. My boyfriend waited at the location with the reward money but he never showed up. When he went back home he messaged the guy asking what happened and the guy said that he had already let the cat loose for the night and that his kids were already bonding with her. My boyfriend tried to explain that he has an autistic brother who is really missing her, he just wants to know if it's her or not and would give him extra money to pay for the food he gave her. But he never messaged back and we don't know where he lives. I still have the kittens twin sister and we were thinking of doing an exchange if he agrees to it so that my boyfriend and his brother have their cat back and his kids still have a pet. But I don't know about this what should we do? She was only missing for a few days they couldn't have bonded with her that much if she is only coming by their house to eat.
    6 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 3 months ago
  • Why is my cats tail getting bent even more?

    My cat is medium haired with a bushy tail. I've had him since he was born he will be 5 in july. I don't know when I noticed but one day when he was a bit older I ran my fingers across his tail and felt the tip was bent. I looked up that some cats have bent tails so I thought nothing of it. But just now I was feeling through his tail again... show more
    My cat is medium haired with a bushy tail. I've had him since he was born he will be 5 in july. I don't know when I noticed but one day when he was a bit older I ran my fingers across his tail and felt the tip was bent. I looked up that some cats have bent tails so I thought nothing of it. But just now I was feeling through his tail again and his tail is even more bent. Like a zigzag. He does go outside sometimes but usually only at night when it's more quiet and the longest he will stay out is by early morning. (There's a hole in the garage that he knows about so he's able to get in anytime he wants to.) I don't know if something been smashing his tail because it doesn't hurt him when touched and he's never hid away from us ( Like a cat whose been hurt may do until he feels better). Any ideas as to how its even more bent than before?
    2 answers · Cats · 3 months ago
  • Why do I keep misplacing things in weird places and how do I stop this?

    Please dont leave a comment like "Just look after your stuff better then you wouldnt loose it." because if I could I would flip the bird -_- Anyways I tend to loose my things in weird places. I do have spots for them but heres what I mean. I'm on my phone scrolling facebook and decided that I want to eat. I go to the cupboard and... show more
    Please dont leave a comment like "Just look after your stuff better then you wouldnt loose it." because if I could I would flip the bird -_- Anyways I tend to loose my things in weird places. I do have spots for them but heres what I mean. I'm on my phone scrolling facebook and decided that I want to eat. I go to the cupboard and realise the phone in still in my hand. I put it down in the cupboard really quick to take a bowl out but the second i pull it out thats when my mom calls me from the livingroom to go do something for her. I leave, do it, put the food in the bowl and watch some tv. Thats when i realize my phone is not in my pocket. I go back to every room and check on top and under every table and its no where to be found. Why? because I forgot it in the cupboard when I had to quickly leave to do something else. I do this to a lot of my things. I put it down because I need both hands in order to do something or put it down in a random spot because someone needs me right away and then I cant find it because its nowhere where I would usually put my stuff. It drives me mad how do I stop this!? oh yeah and I've learned to just quickly put down anything anywhere when im needed because my mom would get mad at me when I was little when I was asked to do something and was holding something so I wouldnt loose it so she would yell at me to just put it down anywhere instead of letting me actually put it away.
    3 answers · Mental Health · 3 months ago
  • What's an illness that can cause mental illness?

    I used to know an old lady who had a mentally disabled son. My mom had told me that he was born normal until he got really sick at around 2 years old and it stopped his brain development. ( basically he still has the mind of a 2 year old). What kind of sickness can do that to a child?
    I used to know an old lady who had a mentally disabled son. My mom had told me that he was born normal until he got really sick at around 2 years old and it stopped his brain development. ( basically he still has the mind of a 2 year old). What kind of sickness can do that to a child?
    3 answers · Mental Health · 3 months ago
  • How to teach my dog to stop peeing in the cat litter?

    At first I thought it was a good idea when he started doing it because then if we didn't see him waiting by the door he could just go in the litter. But he's a big dog so when he goes it's a lot of pee compared.to a cat. It soaks up a lot of the litter so I end up having to buy more a lot sooner. I also noticed that he really only goes... show more
    At first I thought it was a good idea when he started doing it because then if we didn't see him waiting by the door he could just go in the litter. But he's a big dog so when he goes it's a lot of pee compared.to a cat. It soaks up a lot of the litter so I end up having to buy more a lot sooner. I also noticed that he really only goes It's only right after one of the cats goes so he's getting rid of their scent with his pee. He also does the same with the other dog. If she pees anywhere she will sniff the exact same spot and pee right there. He is a year old so what would be the best way to get him to stop going in the cat litter?
    3 answers · Dogs · 3 months ago