Consider this conversation.
Anna : you are my curse, you always is in lack money and i'm always there to keep your ahead above water, i have a life too.
Sarah : well you are my gift, for whenever i am down and nothing to eat, you are always there i can run to.
(Sarah is in financial difficulty but never took anna for granted. Anna is financially stable. They are sisters/related)
My question is, from the two, who is considered blessed or gifted or whatever you call it?
Let me know what you think.