• Is being really fixated on someone bad?

    Because i’m a 27 year old female and I have a friend that i’m close to and she’s a lot older than me and I am really fixated on her and it’s really bothering me and I don’t want to tell her that but I have told her that I think I put her on a pedestal and she said I think you do to and I told her sometimes I go overboard and she says she does too... show more
    Because i’m a 27 year old female and I have a friend that i’m close to and she’s a lot older than me and I am really fixated on her and it’s really bothering me and I don’t want to tell her that but I have told her that I think I put her on a pedestal and she said I think you do to and I told her sometimes I go overboard and she says she does too sometimes. I think about her all the time and I want to stop doing that and I need to stop because it’s making me upset. I’m still going to be her friend though and she told me she’s not going anywhere and she doesn’t want me to leave either. I just don’t want to think about her so much like I do and she only has one other friend really other than me so how do I just relax about this? And I have more friends than she does but I don’t ever see them and they don’t really talk to me like she talks to me
    1 answer · Friends · 40 mins ago
  • What does this mean exactly?

    What does it mean when your best friend asks you do you want to continue being my friend and then you would say well what would you do if I wasn’t your friend and then your friend says well I would take it one day at a time what do they mean by that? Are they basically saying that they don’t care if you leave or not?
    What does it mean when your best friend asks you do you want to continue being my friend and then you would say well what would you do if I wasn’t your friend and then your friend says well I would take it one day at a time what do they mean by that? Are they basically saying that they don’t care if you leave or not?
    1 answer · Friends · 21 hours ago
  • I need help with this?

    I have this friend and me and her are both adults and we’re both women and we are pretty close to each other and we’re best friends but sometimes though when I’m not having a good day or when i’m not in a good mood I will text her in a lot of times in a row and even sometimes when I am having a good day I will do that too because I do have a lot to... show more
    I have this friend and me and her are both adults and we’re both women and we are pretty close to each other and we’re best friends but sometimes though when I’m not having a good day or when i’m not in a good mood I will text her in a lot of times in a row and even sometimes when I am having a good day I will do that too because I do have a lot to say sometimes and she says that i’m ok with doing that but I have regretted that so much and sometimes when I text her a lot in row sometimes I don’t make sense with what I say and that means I am really struggling at the time and she has seen me struggle more than my own parents have I would say and more than anyone else has seen me struggle and I live with my parents. I’m just concerned that this getting to be too much for me well with what I say sometimes to her but I know we all make mistakes and I have never had a true friend like her before and I feel like it’s gotten kind of to the point of obsession with her but she doesn’t know that and also her and some of my family have known each other for years and so how do I really feel better about this from now on? Because I feel like I have made a lot of mistakes in my friendship with her and I do care about her a lot and I am trying to be the best friend that I can be to her and I think about her a lot too
    3 answers · Friends · 2 days ago
  • I need help with this?

    I believe that you should treat your friends like family but just how should you do that exactly? I know this sounds like a weird question sorry
    I believe that you should treat your friends like family but just how should you do that exactly? I know this sounds like a weird question sorry
    2 answers · Friends · 3 days ago
  • I need help with this?

    Is calling someone else a mess a good thing of a bad thing?
    Is calling someone else a mess a good thing of a bad thing?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 days ago
  • Is this ok?

    Is it really ok to still be friends with someone if they don’t tell you they love you but they only say it when you say it to them? I have a friend that’s like this and I do wish she would tell me that she loves me but I know I can’t make her say it and i’m also a female and me and her are both adults and she’s old enough to be my mom and I asked... show more
    Is it really ok to still be friends with someone if they don’t tell you they love you but they only say it when you say it to them? I have a friend that’s like this and I do wish she would tell me that she loves me but I know I can’t make her say it and i’m also a female and me and her are both adults and she’s old enough to be my mom and I asked her if she cares about me like she used to and she said well yeah but that even kinda bothered me when she said that
    2 answers · Friends · 5 days ago
  • I need help with this?

    Is it ok for me to think that my friends don’t need to stay in my life if they don’t want to because I don’t want to be pushy. I’m thinking about one of my friends in particular I told her that I want her to stay and she told me she’s not going anywhere but I don’t want to be pushy though
    Is it ok for me to think that my friends don’t need to stay in my life if they don’t want to because I don’t want to be pushy. I’m thinking about one of my friends in particular I told her that I want her to stay and she told me she’s not going anywhere but I don’t want to be pushy though
    2 answers · Friends · 6 days ago
  • I need help with this?

    I have had trouble making friends since I was little and i’m a 27 year old female now and I still have some issues with it so I really don’t know how to think about having friends I guess I would say and plus I over think it a lot and I have been hurt quite a bit in the past and what I really don’t like about friendships is some friends grow apart... show more
    I have had trouble making friends since I was little and i’m a 27 year old female now and I still have some issues with it so I really don’t know how to think about having friends I guess I would say and plus I over think it a lot and I have been hurt quite a bit in the past and what I really don’t like about friendships is some friends grow apart and there’s some friends that don’t talk for months at a time and I just don’t like that friendships can be like that. I don’t know who came up with that but I think that’s ridiculous. Is it normal to think this? And how should I really think about having friends? Because I do think that friends should treat each other like they would their own family but it seems like with me the friends I have now don’t really do that except for 1 or 2 and there have been times where I just don’t want any friends because I have gotten overwhelmed a lot with people. Can I please have some help with this?
    2 answers · Friends · 1 week ago
  • What does this mean?

    I have a friend that I sent a selfie to and me and her are both adults and i’m a female too just to throw that in there and there is a big age gap between me and her and I sent her a selfie and she asked me where was my smile and then I sent her one of me smiling and she said better so does it sound like she only likes my pictures when I’m smiling?
    I have a friend that I sent a selfie to and me and her are both adults and i’m a female too just to throw that in there and there is a big age gap between me and her and I sent her a selfie and she asked me where was my smile and then I sent her one of me smiling and she said better so does it sound like she only likes my pictures when I’m smiling?
    2 answers · Friends · 2 weeks ago
  • I need help with this please?

    Are best friends supposed to be here for each other all the time or just when they can be?
    Are best friends supposed to be here for each other all the time or just when they can be?
    3 answers · Friends · 2 weeks ago
  • I need help with this?

    What do you think about 2 women that are both adults and that are both close friends spending the night in a hotel room together? But one of the women is a lot older then the other woman and the woman that’s a lot older has a husband
    What do you think about 2 women that are both adults and that are both close friends spending the night in a hotel room together? But one of the women is a lot older then the other woman and the woman that’s a lot older has a husband
    4 answers · Friends · 2 weeks ago
  • I need help with this?

    I have heard when you have friends that you have to know your boundaries well I have trouble with this and i’m 27 years old but I don’t even know what boundaries are really so can someone give some examples of that? And are boundaries basically another word for rules because there’s no rules in friendships to me. I have also had trouble making... show more
    I have heard when you have friends that you have to know your boundaries well I have trouble with this and i’m 27 years old but I don’t even know what boundaries are really so can someone give some examples of that? And are boundaries basically another word for rules because there’s no rules in friendships to me. I have also had trouble making friends to for a lot of years
    2 answers · Friends · 2 weeks ago
  • Is this common?

    Is it common for friends that are females and that are also adults to be concerned about each other and also worry about each other when they don’t hear from each other? And is there a name for that? Because I have a friend that’s like this about me
    Is it common for friends that are females and that are also adults to be concerned about each other and also worry about each other when they don’t hear from each other? And is there a name for that? Because I have a friend that’s like this about me
    4 answers · Friends · 2 weeks ago
  • How do I do this?

    I have been thinking to treat my friends like I do my family and so I was talking to my uncle last night and he said for me to treat my friends better then family because some families are not good with each other so how do I do that? I am already a caring person to my friends and I try to talk to them quite a bit and be there for them even though I... show more
    I have been thinking to treat my friends like I do my family and so I was talking to my uncle last night and he said for me to treat my friends better then family because some families are not good with each other so how do I do that? I am already a caring person to my friends and I try to talk to them quite a bit and be there for them even though I have had problems with friendships and people not tearing me right in the past and I also overthink having friends too
    2 answers · Friends · 3 weeks ago
  • Is this ok?

    Is it ok to just grow apart from the friends you have because you want to? I have some friends but not very many and people have treated me wrong in the past and I am concerned it’s kind of happening again in a way but it’s really nothing like what has happened in my past and I have always had a hard time having friends and I still do and i’m A 27... show more
    Is it ok to just grow apart from the friends you have because you want to? I have some friends but not very many and people have treated me wrong in the past and I am concerned it’s kind of happening again in a way but it’s really nothing like what has happened in my past and I have always had a hard time having friends and I still do and i’m A 27 year old female. I am deciding to grow apart from them because like I said I don’t know how to handle having friends. I have a couple of friends that make an effort to talk to me and I do make an effort to talk to them. They are true friends and I have never had that before and I don’t want them to know that i’m Struggling anymore because one of my friends knows that I struggle a lot and I just don’t want her knowing that I am emotional again. Sorry I am all over the place with this but today has not been good for me. I am just scared to get close to anyone
    5 answers · Friends · 4 weeks ago
  • Is this ok?

    Is it ok if you want people to leave you alone all the time and you want to be by yourself all the time? Especially if you have emotional problems
    Is it ok if you want people to leave you alone all the time and you want to be by yourself all the time? Especially if you have emotional problems
    4 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 4 weeks ago
  • What does this mean?

    Does pushing someone away meaning not talking to them much like when they used to talk more?
    Does pushing someone away meaning not talking to them much like when they used to talk more?
    6 answers · Friends · 1 month ago
  • What would you do in this situation?

    What would you do if your best friend didn’t talk to you much anymore but she still texts you some and she says she talks to you when she can but she used to not say that before and she also says you have not done anything wrong and she also still says that her you’re her good best friend?
    What would you do if your best friend didn’t talk to you much anymore but she still texts you some and she says she talks to you when she can but she used to not say that before and she also says you have not done anything wrong and she also still says that her you’re her good best friend?
    3 answers · Friends · 1 month ago