• Is bleeding normal after giving 2 months ago and currently breastfeeding?

    I gave birth via c section, i was fine up until yesterday i started bleeding again. Not sure if I should be concern.
    I gave birth via c section, i was fine up until yesterday i started bleeding again. Not sure if I should be concern.
    10 answers · Newborn & Baby · 4 weeks ago
  • Could I be suffering from postpartum depression or Not? I just gave birth less than two weeks ago I absolutely love my baby girl?

    However I've been angry a lot. I have two other girls (7years old and 3 years old) I yelled at them a few time when they misbehaved however when it comes to my husband it seems like im ready to chop his head off. Little things annoy me and there are time i feel helpless. I'm supposed to be resting and not do heavy lifting because of the c... show more
    However I've been angry a lot. I have two other girls (7years old and 3 years old) I yelled at them a few time when they misbehaved however when it comes to my husband it seems like im ready to chop his head off. Little things annoy me and there are time i feel helpless. I'm supposed to be resting and not do heavy lifting because of the c section but i can't depend on my husband to get anything done correctly and that kind of make me mad. I cant shower or have a moment to myself because I breastfeed and baby needs me and my husband can't calm her or even holds her properly. I feel like I'm losing it.
    6 answers · Newborn & Baby · 3 months ago
  • Child neglect case in Fl. pending what are my options? First time arrested?

    Two weeks ago I made a stupid mistake I'm afraid it will cost me my kids and I'll be thrown in jail. Im currently 38 weeks pregnant and i have a 3 year old daughter two Fridays after a terrible night I couldn't sleep, i decide to downstairs. I locked the door and left my baby sleeping upstairs instead of taking the normal route I walked... show more
    Two weeks ago I made a stupid mistake I'm afraid it will cost me my kids and I'll be thrown in jail. Im currently 38 weeks pregnant and i have a 3 year old daughter two Fridays after a terrible night I couldn't sleep, i decide to downstairs. I locked the door and left my baby sleeping upstairs instead of taking the normal route I walked in the back of my building and was just sitting there. I walked upstairs and my baby was gone, i rushed back down looking for her calling her name she was out of sight. I went back upstairs call my husband then the cops while one the phone with dispatcher I was informed someone else was also calling saying they found a child. I went downstairs but didnt find anyone, a neighbor found her and took her in.i explained to the cops what happened. I was gone for no more than 10 minutes. I was arrested, my very first time and was charged with child neglect. The first cop said if it was up to me he woiuld have given me a warning but since another cop showed up and was making a big deal of it the other cop took over hence I'm being arrested. It was the worst time of my life. Now i need a lawyer most are asking for money I cant afford and I'm terrified I will lose both kids. Im willing to take courses anything to show the judge it was a mistake. Dcf lady agreed that my daughter is well taking care of and that my house is child proof it was indeed a mistake. But now I will become a felony, will of course lose my job and my kids.
    1 answer · Law & Ethics · 4 months ago
  • Beverages choices at wedding reception?

    I dont drink alcohol neither does my fiance. For the cocktail hour I was thinking lemonade (our favorite) its also outdoor South Florida I thought it would be refreshing in this awful heat. I dont like the idea of soda with dinner. What are some other choices? We both love passion fruit and crangrape juice and we are drinking it during dinner, but I... show more
    I dont drink alcohol neither does my fiance. For the cocktail hour I was thinking lemonade (our favorite) its also outdoor South Florida I thought it would be refreshing in this awful heat. I dont like the idea of soda with dinner. What are some other choices? We both love passion fruit and crangrape juice and we are drinking it during dinner, but I cant figure out what else I should have for my guests. We are also thinking of champagne for toasting. I was also thinking of getting beers for some of our guests but my fiance said no. Any thoughts
    20 answers · Weddings · 1 year ago
  • Which color tablecloths is better for wedding reception? Is the centerpiece too little or simple?

    Im gettign married in November and Im pretty much doing everything to cut back unnecessary expenses. my colors are lavender and silver. I want my wedding to be elegant yet simple. For center pieces I ordered some vases from amazon I plan on using them with silk calla lily and floating candles. 3 vases per table, i only have 4 tables. I am unsure if... show more
    Im gettign married in November and Im pretty much doing everything to cut back unnecessary expenses. my colors are lavender and silver. I want my wedding to be elegant yet simple. For center pieces I ordered some vases from amazon I plan on using them with silk calla lily and floating candles. 3 vases per table, i only have 4 tables. I am unsure if i should do silver tablecloths with lavender sash. or white table clothes. The calla Lilly i ordered are white with lavender. Please help. also the chairs are silver chiavari with lavender bow
    6 answers · Weddings · 1 year ago
  • Work comp is not paying me not sure what to do now... Any idea on who can help me now?!?

    It s been a month since I received my last payments, I have sent every form they asked of me. I went to all my doctor appointments. I haven t heard anything from them. I ve tried emailing my case manager, she simply told me to contact someone else when I did I got no response I have left many voicemail asking for a call back nothing. It s bad enough... show more
    It s been a month since I received my last payments, I have sent every form they asked of me. I went to all my doctor appointments. I haven t heard anything from them. I ve tried emailing my case manager, she simply told me to contact someone else when I did I got no response I have left many voicemail asking for a call back nothing. It s bad enough I can t work now I m really behind on all my bills. I just need to know if when I ll be heading back to work or if I ll be receiving anything soon. Now I m frustrated not sure who else to contact. By the way I live in Fl and Sedwick is handling the case. Should I be calling a lawyer? Or my job Hr?!
    2 answers · Law & Ethics · 2 years ago
  • Not sexually attracted to my fiancĂ©.... Don't know what to do?

    We dated back in high school broke up 5 years later back together at first it was great. We were touchy touchy and now im annoyed with him. I love him but I don't know what's going on with me. I've been under a lot of stress finding a job, trying to find a home for my girls and he's been super supportive. First thing I notice was... show more
    We dated back in high school broke up 5 years later back together at first it was great. We were touchy touchy and now im annoyed with him. I love him but I don't know what's going on with me. I've been under a lot of stress finding a job, trying to find a home for my girls and he's been super supportive. First thing I notice was bothering me was him clinging on to me wanting to be everywhere I am. He acts all depress if I'm going to have play date and I said he can't join me. He is Caucasian and I'm Haitian sometimes I like to be around my cousin and speak my native tongue but he can't seems to understand that. I get annoyed when he's asking for kiss and he hasn't brush all day or wash his face major turn off, no matter how many times I tell him he always go back to being him. Not sure why but now sex is something I don't want to have. I love him and wants to marry this man but I'm not sure what's going on with me. Why am I not interested in sex? Why does it bother me when he gets to close?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • If you put your child father on child support would you let them know ahead of time?!?

    My youngest child's father is pretty much a sperm donor. Doesn't spend a dime on her or time with her. His mom on the other hand step up and on Saturdays spent the day with her, I honestly knows in my heart she truly cares. Over and over she thanks me for allowing them to have a relationship. My daughter dad and I had a bad relationship and... show more
    My youngest child's father is pretty much a sperm donor. Doesn't spend a dime on her or time with her. His mom on the other hand step up and on Saturdays spent the day with her, I honestly knows in my heart she truly cares. Over and over she thanks me for allowing them to have a relationship. My daughter dad and I had a bad relationship and now can't stand one another I'm cool with that. Everyone is telling me I should stop sending my daughter to the grandma I see why but I feel so awful getting in between them. I want them to have a relationship, it's not fair to stop them. Since her dad is not helping i put him on child support. My questions is should I tell his mom that he is being put on child support? Will that have any effect on my daughter and grandma?! Will her grandma hates my guts?! This is really bothering me no one seems to understand why I want my baby to have a relationship with her grandma.
    1 answer · Family · 3 years ago
  • After VPK does the kids go to Elementary school or Kindergarten?!!?

    I have a 4year old born in October. She missed VPK because she wasn't old enough now she's four starting VPK this year. I found out that kindergarten is age 5. My question is in the state of Florida does she have to attend kindergarten or can she go straight to elementary school after vpk?!!
    I have a 4year old born in October. She missed VPK because she wasn't old enough now she's four starting VPK this year. I found out that kindergarten is age 5. My question is in the state of Florida does she have to attend kindergarten or can she go straight to elementary school after vpk?!!
    2 answers · Preschool · 3 years ago
  • My 8months old is so small, she still wear a size two diapers. I'm tired of hearing people tell me how light she is?

    I have his beautiful healthy always happy baby girl. As far as I'm concerned everything is well with her. I've asked doctors many times about her development and always told she's fine. She was born 7pounds and 6ounces just like her big sister. Fast forward 8 months later she only weighs 18pounds at first I wasn't worried but now... show more
    I have his beautiful healthy always happy baby girl. As far as I'm concerned everything is well with her. I've asked doctors many times about her development and always told she's fine. She was born 7pounds and 6ounces just like her big sister. Fast forward 8 months later she only weighs 18pounds at first I wasn't worried but now I'm questioning it. She wa. Breastfed 6months exclusively now on solid and still breast feeds she have a huge appetite and I love feeding her healthy food but she still remain small. I don't know what else to do. I never had that problem with her older sister. Any suggestion please
    5 answers · Newborn & Baby · 3 years ago
  • Home remedies for awful farts and belch?

    Since I gave birth 4months ago, I cant stop farting. It smells awful and its not here and there but always. God forbid I eat something anything, I will fart nonstop. What can I do?!! Im currently having constipation problem. Could that be the reason why I am farting so much. And my 4year old is farting as well. HELPPPPPPPPPP
    Since I gave birth 4months ago, I cant stop farting. It smells awful and its not here and there but always. God forbid I eat something anything, I will fart nonstop. What can I do?!! Im currently having constipation problem. Could that be the reason why I am farting so much. And my 4year old is farting as well. HELPPPPPPPPPP
    1 answer · Other - Health · 3 years ago
  • Thinking of getting a meaningful tattoo to honor my babies?

    I have 2 amazing little girls Abigael 4 years and Isabella 2months old. I really want to get a tattoo that will be for them both. I now have a butterfly tattoo on my left shoulder. I'm undecided as if I want to write just their name or something more powerful. At first I was thinking of "all that i am and ever hope to be I owe to my lovely... show more
    I have 2 amazing little girls Abigael 4 years and Isabella 2months old. I really want to get a tattoo that will be for them both. I now have a butterfly tattoo on my left shoulder. I'm undecided as if I want to write just their name or something more powerful. At first I was thinking of "all that i am and ever hope to be I owe to my lovely children" but I was told it's too much. Please give me ideas thanks.
    1 answer · Tattoos · 3 years ago
  • My boyfriend breath smells awful. should I tell him?

    At first his breath wasn't as bad as it is now. Even when he brush five minutes later it's awful. Cause of that kissing him is unbearable. I'm doing everything I can to help I'm currently paying for his dentist to do a deep cleaning. His gums are very bad even the dentist said so. He has been complaining because I refused oral sex... show more
    At first his breath wasn't as bad as it is now. Even when he brush five minutes later it's awful. Cause of that kissing him is unbearable. I'm doing everything I can to help I'm currently paying for his dentist to do a deep cleaning. His gums are very bad even the dentist said so. He has been complaining because I refused oral sex from him, in the past two times I let him I developed a really bad infection. Could me getting the infection be from getting oral sex. I'm currently 37weeks pregnant. Another question should I be honest with him and tell him why I don't kiss him. I don't want to embarrassed him.
    2 answers · Dental · 4 years ago
  • DCF sends me for a psychiatric evaluation... Now what? Will they ever go away? What right do they have over my unborn child?

    Few weeks ago this lady showed up on my door, according to her she was there because she received a report stating that "I" was being abused by my boyfriend. I let her in so she can get her story straight, no matter how hard I tried to get her to understand me she felt as if I was dishonest and didnt take her seriously. In all honest truth... show more
    Few weeks ago this lady showed up on my door, according to her she was there because she received a report stating that "I" was being abused by my boyfriend. I let her in so she can get her story straight, no matter how hard I tried to get her to understand me she felt as if I was dishonest and didnt take her seriously. In all honest truth I wanted to ask her to leave and stay the heck out of my business and to harassed someone else but I kept my mouth shuts. I am currently pregnant due in August and have a 3year old toddler from a previous marriage. Last year my ex decided that he wanted to ruin my birthday, he called the cops stating that I was abusing my daughter, cops came and showed no sign of abused and realized that my ex set me. I showed them a message my ex sends me stating he will call the cops reporting kidnapping/abuse if i didnt answer the phone, 5 minutes later he placed the call to the cops. I was given the options to file a report against for lying but I didnt want to create more drama. When the DCF showed up at my door she also bring that up. I was told that I will be taking to court to see if I am fit parent, and I need to undergo psychiatric evaluation. Everyone that knows me can vouched that my daughter is my everything. I adore and spoiled that little girl. We are like two kids when playing, Never abused her, i go crazy if someone hits her. Now Im in hot water with DCF. What am I to do?
    2 answers · Other - Pregnancy & Parenting · 4 years ago
  • Can the father mane be added later on the child birth certificate?

    Im currently pregnant with two possible dads. My boyfriend and my x. I've made up my mind to keep this little miracle. My concern is for the birth certificate once the baby is born what if I leave the father name empty and give the baby my last name? Can I add the dad last name later? Or will the hospital do the test for me I'm in miami... show more
    Im currently pregnant with two possible dads. My boyfriend and my x. I've made up my mind to keep this little miracle. My concern is for the birth certificate once the baby is born what if I leave the father name empty and give the baby my last name? Can I add the dad last name later? Or will the hospital do the test for me I'm in miami county? While I would love to have the dad in our lives I'm ready to do it alone. Please no smart comments.
    1 answer · Pregnancy · 4 years ago
  • A trip to Bahamas but no idea on where to go or what to do?

    Since I been in South Florida I haven't visit anywhere and this year I am determined to get out of Florida and visit somewhere new. I have been thinking about my motherland Haiti or anywhere in the Caribbean. Problem with Haiti is I left when I was really young and now I dont really know where I would go or no a lot of people back there. I just... show more
    Since I been in South Florida I haven't visit anywhere and this year I am determined to get out of Florida and visit somewhere new. I have been thinking about my motherland Haiti or anywhere in the Caribbean. Problem with Haiti is I left when I was really young and now I dont really know where I would go or no a lot of people back there. I just got my eyes on Bahamas but Im very lost as to where in Bahamas I should go and what to do. This trip is for relaxation and to bond with my bf until the baby gets here in August. Question is have anyone went to Bahamas where and how did they like it? Open to suggestions Thanks
    2 answers · Bahamas · 4 years ago
  • Which one is the father my x or my boyfriend?

    This should be the happiest moment of my life but im miserable. I found out that im pregnant on Friday. I was thrilled but now im terrified. I had my period November 13until the 18 it was light at first but then it was normal. An app I had on my phone said I fertile days was from 20 to 25. I had sex with my boyfriend 2 "4 5 11 14 18 21all the... show more
    This should be the happiest moment of my life but im miserable. I found out that im pregnant on Friday. I was thrilled but now im terrified. I had my period November 13until the 18 it was light at first but then it was normal. An app I had on my phone said I fertile days was from 20 to 25. I had sex with my boyfriend 2 "4 5 11 14 18 21all the way to 27 no condoms and he always came in me. One the 26 I had sex with my x unprotected. My period was supposed to come December 7 nothing took a test literally on friday it was positive. Sometimes on the 20something my doctor tested me and I was negative. My boyfriend truly wants a kid and so do I. I'm crushed. I told them both of the possibility and my boyfriend is very upset which is understandable. What is the chance of him being the dad
    4 answers · Pregnancy · 4 years ago
  • My boyfriend wants a baby...?

    So me and my boyfriend just got together (havent been a month). While we were hanging out at my place he said that he wants to have a baby with me. We are both adult(him 26 me 23) and we both have a daughter from previous marriage. And I can see that we are crazy about one another but I am so scared after so many fail relationships I dont want to... show more
    So me and my boyfriend just got together (havent been a month). While we were hanging out at my place he said that he wants to have a baby with me. We are both adult(him 26 me 23) and we both have a daughter from previous marriage. And I can see that we are crazy about one another but I am so scared after so many fail relationships I dont want to get my hopes up and go through another heartache plus another baby. Part of me wants to get pregnant, the other part scared. We talked about it and he seems to understand my fears but still wont give up on the baby thing. What am I to do?
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 years ago
  • My boyfriend wants to have a baby?

    So me and my boyfriend just got together (havent been a month). While we were hanging out at my place he said that he wants to have a baby with me. We are both adult(him 26 me 23) and we both have a daughter from previous marriage. And I can see that we are crazy about one another but I am so scared after so many fail relationships I dont want to... show more
    So me and my boyfriend just got together (havent been a month). While we were hanging out at my place he said that he wants to have a baby with me. We are both adult(him 26 me 23) and we both have a daughter from previous marriage. And I can see that we are crazy about one another but I am so scared after so many fail relationships I dont want to get my hopes up and go through another heartache plus another baby. Part of me wants to get pregnant, the other part scared. We talked about it and he seems to understand my fears but still wont give up on the baby thing. What am I to do?
    4 answers · Trying to Conceive · 4 years ago
  • I want to tell him that Im not interested in anal sex...?

    So me and this guy have been having sex for a while and its great. Up until a day ago, things went left. Personally I have no problem with trying new things but anal sex is not one of the things I want to do. When he first insert his finger in my anus I was shocked and disgusted ny it but was too afraid to say anything. Things go worst when he later... show more
    So me and this guy have been having sex for a while and its great. Up until a day ago, things went left. Personally I have no problem with trying new things but anal sex is not one of the things I want to do. When he first insert his finger in my anus I was shocked and disgusted ny it but was too afraid to say anything. Things go worst when he later tried to put his penis in there. It was very painful and I was turned off. Finally I had the courage to push him off and stop it. I have been bleeding from back there and now I'm having second thoughts about him. I want to address the situation but don't know how/ too scared. I need a advice on how to approach him about it. I honestly don't want to have anal sex and I hate how awkward I am around him now.
    6 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 years ago