• How am I going to live with myself after making my the love of my life leave me?

    I ruined an amazing relationship by being stupid and selfish. I treated my girlfriend like **** and she’s broke up with me and it’s all my fault. We’re both still deeply in love but she doesn’t want to put up with my **** for any longer. I can’t blame her, I ******* hate myself. Once our relationship became long distance, I’ve completely dropped... show more
    I ruined an amazing relationship by being stupid and selfish. I treated my girlfriend like **** and she’s broke up with me and it’s all my fault. We’re both still deeply in love but she doesn’t want to put up with my **** for any longer. I can’t blame her, I ******* hate myself. Once our relationship became long distance, I’ve completely dropped the ball on making her feel loved and comprising for the time spent apart, as well as being as asshole when we’re together. Now she’s gone and I’m back to feeling truly lonely. She’s the only girl I’ve been with who I’ve really felt a deep connection with, and vice versa, but I’ve ruined everything. I was given so many chances too. She wants me to change and come back to her when I really have but I can’t envisaging myself even getting through the next month. I’m so so heartbroken and I don’t know what to do
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 weeks ago
  • Has wearing a hat ruined my hair?

    For the past week I have been wearing a hat, washing my hair twice in that week. I usually wash my hair daily and now I ve just washed my hair and am trying to style it like usual. It won t go the same as it used to after several washes. What can I do to get my hair back to normal? I m worried that it won t because I ve been having more and more... show more
    For the past week I have been wearing a hat, washing my hair twice in that week. I usually wash my hair daily and now I ve just washed my hair and am trying to style it like usual. It won t go the same as it used to after several washes. What can I do to get my hair back to normal? I m worried that it won t because I ve been having more and more trouble with washing and styling in the past few months. Any help
    1 answer · Hair · 2 months ago
  • I feel so lost in the world right now?

    I'm currently at university which is an experience I'm hating. I have no idea what I want to study or will enjoy studying. I'm a horrible student and I have no interest or motivation in my classes, nor do I feel like I could even get a good grade in them. I feel completely useless. I don't have any desirable traits or any talents and... show more
    I'm currently at university which is an experience I'm hating. I have no idea what I want to study or will enjoy studying. I'm a horrible student and I have no interest or motivation in my classes, nor do I feel like I could even get a good grade in them. I feel completely useless. I don't have any desirable traits or any talents and feel like I have anything to offer society. The girl I'm in love with and want to be with is studying law and is going to have a significantly better career than I will. She also lives miles away from me and we see each other a couple of times a year I feel like a complete failure and have no idea what I want to pursue or be in life while everyone around me has their life sorted out. I'm never going to be content with working an average-salaried job either. This all feeds into my depression and anxiety and I'm considering if I even want to be alive right now. I'm so unhappy and aimless. I'm feeling like I'm not built to deal with the pressures of life right now.
    3 answers · Psychology · 3 months ago
  • Which US City to Visit Next Summer?

    I m going to be visiting some family in Denver with my mum and my sister (I m not from the US) and they want to stay in another city too while we re over there to really make the most of the expensive flights. Any recommendations on where I should visit as most of the cities at the top of my list (NYC/LA/San Francisco to name a few) aren t top of... show more
    I m going to be visiting some family in Denver with my mum and my sister (I m not from the US) and they want to stay in another city too while we re over there to really make the most of the expensive flights. Any recommendations on where I should visit as most of the cities at the top of my list (NYC/LA/San Francisco to name a few) aren t top of my families list for whatever reason. Bare in mind it s going to be in the middle of the summer, I m with family and I ll only be 20 years old so I can t go out and enjoy the nightlife like I want to. Chicago, DC and maybe Toronto are what I m currently thinking but I m after some second opinions. And yes, I really I m planning very very early but it what I do when I don t have any trips in my diary.
    4 answers · Other - United States · 5 months ago
  • Do I Book This Holiday to NYC?

    I'm really torn between wether to go on this holiday to NYC... I would normally go with my instincts but I feel like I really need some unbiased outside opinions here. I would be flying 8 hours on a Friday to watch a concert and then spend 2 full days there before flying back on Monday. All together It'll cost me 750 dollars plus what I... show more
    I'm really torn between wether to go on this holiday to NYC... I would normally go with my instincts but I feel like I really need some unbiased outside opinions here. I would be flying 8 hours on a Friday to watch a concert and then spend 2 full days there before flying back on Monday. All together It'll cost me 750 dollars plus what I spend out there. I would be seeing an artist who I've been a fan of for years now and I'm desperate to see and have been waiting for him to come to my country but he never has and doesn't look like he ever will. It's a bucket list thing for me I fell in love with NYC when I was there 2 years ago and have always wanted to go back as much as possible. I would also been meeting a girl who I met and stayed with in Paris earlier this year and we really felt a connection with each other. I want to go so badly but I don't have 750+ dollars just laying about like that due to me being a student. I have the money right now but it's all of my savings gone if I do decide to go. Would really appreciate secondary advice as I'm genuinely stuck on what to do here. My parents and my friends are kinda against it but I'm desperate to see this artist life and I'm not sure if I'll ever get another chance.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 months ago
  • Is It Okay To Take My Own Earring Into a Piercing Studio and Have Them Put It In For Me?

    If it wasn t already pierced? There s a certain earring I want that I can only see online and j wanted to bring it down to the studio and have them pierce my eye and put it in for me.
    If it wasn t already pierced? There s a certain earring I want that I can only see online and j wanted to bring it down to the studio and have them pierce my eye and put it in for me.
    2 answers · Other - Skin & Body · 9 months ago
  • How to get rid of piercing spots?

    I keep getting a bump/spot where my nose piercing, even though I'm not touching it and washing it with salt water/hydrogen peroxide 2/3 times a day. The first one went away after I took my piercing out for a week but when I put it back in a new one just developed. Need help!
    I keep getting a bump/spot where my nose piercing, even though I'm not touching it and washing it with salt water/hydrogen peroxide 2/3 times a day. The first one went away after I took my piercing out for a week but when I put it back in a new one just developed. Need help!
    2 answers · Other - Skin & Body · 10 months ago
  • How to fully get rid of pressure spots from piercings?

    I had a pressure spot from a nose piercing and I've been treating it over the last few days. It's gone down quite a bit but it's stunted a bit and has stayed at the same size. It feels like it's a bit scanned and I could easily pick it off. Should I keep treating it and is picking it off a bad idea?
    I had a pressure spot from a nose piercing and I've been treating it over the last few days. It's gone down quite a bit but it's stunted a bit and has stayed at the same size. It feels like it's a bit scanned and I could easily pick it off. Should I keep treating it and is picking it off a bad idea?
    1 answer · Other - Skin & Body · 10 months ago
  • How to prevent major dry-mouth after smoking weed?

    The last few times I've smoked weed over the last month or so my throat has been getting worryingly dry. To the point where it's a struggle to swallow and I need a bottle of water next to my bed if I go to sleep high. Is there anything I can do to stop/ease it or anything I'm probably doing wrong when taking the weed down?
    The last few times I've smoked weed over the last month or so my throat has been getting worryingly dry. To the point where it's a struggle to swallow and I need a bottle of water next to my bed if I go to sleep high. Is there anything I can do to stop/ease it or anything I'm probably doing wrong when taking the weed down?
    3 answers · Other - General Health Care · 11 months ago
  • Can you get a cheaper flight ticket if you are a student?

    And how much cheaper would it be in comparison to adult prices?
    And how much cheaper would it be in comparison to adult prices?
    10 answers · Air Travel · 1 year ago
  • Do you always have to pay a customs charge when collecting a parcel that has come from America? (UK)?

    I want to buy something from America but last time I did this I has to pay a £30 customs charge. Is this something that happens every time?
    I want to buy something from America but last time I did this I has to pay a £30 customs charge. Is this something that happens every time?
    1 answer · United Kingdom · 1 year ago
  • Why can't I stop my body from trembling and shaking?

    When I m stood/sat still, my body (mainly my legs) feels like they are shaking and trembling and when I watch them they are. It is worse when my mind is not elsewhere and not wanting them to shake is at the forefront of my mind or I m sitting/standing next to someone so I assume that this is a mental thing like anxiety? Can anyone help me or let... show more
    When I m stood/sat still, my body (mainly my legs) feels like they are shaking and trembling and when I watch them they are. It is worse when my mind is not elsewhere and not wanting them to shake is at the forefront of my mind or I m sitting/standing next to someone so I assume that this is a mental thing like anxiety? Can anyone help me or let me know what this might be?
    1 answer · Diet & Fitness · 2 years ago
  • How to get rid of my dry knuckles/hands?

    Recently my hands and knuckles have gotten really dry to the point that they're rough with bits of dry/crusty skin evident. I've tried different moisturising creams but nothing seems to work and really last beyond 5 minutes. Any help?
    Recently my hands and knuckles have gotten really dry to the point that they're rough with bits of dry/crusty skin evident. I've tried different moisturising creams but nothing seems to work and really last beyond 5 minutes. Any help?
    4 answers · Skin Conditions · 2 years ago
  • Do you always have to pay a customs charge when buying items from America?

    I live in the UK and I recently bought from the US and had to pay a £27 customs charge. I wanted to buy something else from the US but am worried about the charge. Is it every item that comes from America?
    I live in the UK and I recently bought from the US and had to pay a £27 customs charge. I wanted to buy something else from the US but am worried about the charge. Is it every item that comes from America?
    1 answer · United Kingdom · 2 years ago
  • What can I do to stop body from trembling and shaking?

    Over the last week or so, my body is trembling and shaking due to what I presume is anxiety, even though I don't really feel anxious and nervous aside from me being a shy person. The trembling only happens when I'm sitting still (at a desk, waiting in a queue etc.) with nothing to really take my mind off of it. What can I do to help me get... show more
    Over the last week or so, my body is trembling and shaking due to what I presume is anxiety, even though I don't really feel anxious and nervous aside from me being a shy person. The trembling only happens when I'm sitting still (at a desk, waiting in a queue etc.) with nothing to really take my mind off of it. What can I do to help me get rid of this or my anxiety?
    2 answers · Mental Health · 2 years ago
  • How to stop anxiety/nervousness shaking a body trembling?

    Whenever I'm having to sit still with someone around me or even just in the room, I feel like my body is slightly trembling. I don't think that it's overly noticeable but it's very uncomfortable on the inside. What can I do to stop this? I'm not a generally socially awkward person who get's nervous around people. I'm... show more
    Whenever I'm having to sit still with someone around me or even just in the room, I feel like my body is slightly trembling. I don't think that it's overly noticeable but it's very uncomfortable on the inside. What can I do to stop this? I'm not a generally socially awkward person who get's nervous around people. I'm shy, but I can socialise with people as anyone would.
    3 answers · Psychology · 2 years ago
  • I can't stop feeling tense in public and stop my body from trembling, what's going on with me?!?

    Whenever I'm having to stay pretty still (sitting at a desk, sitting in a waiting room, standing in a queue) my body is feeling really tense and I feel like my body is shaking a little bit (I don't even know if it's really noticeable as it is only a little bit of shaking and I think it feels worse from my POV). I only feel like this... show more
    Whenever I'm having to stay pretty still (sitting at a desk, sitting in a waiting room, standing in a queue) my body is feeling really tense and I feel like my body is shaking a little bit (I don't even know if it's really noticeable as it is only a little bit of shaking and I think it feels worse from my POV). I only feel like this when someone is around me, when I'm alone I feel fine. I'm also fine when on a train or in a car as it is moving and I'm fine when I'm occupied or talking to someone so I guess that it's more of a mental issue than a physical issue. What's going on with me and how can I make it stop?
    3 answers · Mental Health · 2 years ago