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  • Would anyone know the reason or if it's normal to fantasise about running away?

    This isn't a sob story I just want my brain to stay in one place and settle down. So any help or similar experiences would be helpful.

    I'm 29

    I've had 3 mortgages in the space of 5 years (3 different homes) I've had 7 jobs in the space of 11 years. After around 6 months of anything I get bored and fantasise leaving whatever it is I'm doing, or living at the time. It's almost an adrenaline rush knowing that I could wreck everything yet the new life or possibility of the new life overwhelms me. I bought my dream cottage with my girlfriend last year yet the feeling has come back to just escape and find a new adventure leaving everything behind.

    2 AnswersPsychology3 months ago
  • Can i tell a complete stranger that they're beautiful?

    I keep seeing this woman who catches my eye, and i think she's beautiful!

    so is it a good idea or a bad idea?

    I'll say "excuse me, i hope you don't mind me saying but i find you exceptionally beautiful"

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • light switch wiring problem.?

    Right bought a 3 way light switch, fitted it everything turns on fine (downstairs) no problem but now upstairs the double switch doesn't turn on the light downstairs so what have i done wrong?

    8 AnswersMaintenance & Repairs4 years ago
  • Added new shares to the company and sent it off to companies house, is there anything else i need to do?

    so filled in form sho1, to allot more shares these shares are just for me and to make me the majority shareholder, i don't have to file anything until june 2017, so is there anything legally i have to do e.g file for significant person form?

    Law & Ethics4 years ago
  • I need a good doing away gift?

    This is a permanent going away i don t think i ll be seeing this person ever again.

    I m a man and have a good female friend i was thinking flowers good or bad?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • Can i get a business bank account?

    Okay so me and my business partner have set up as a limited company i have good credit history and he has bad credit history so where do we stand on getting accepted?

    1 AnswerSmall Business4 years ago
  • How do i be more grateful or remain contempt with my life?

    I m 25 years old, drive a nice car, have my own house, and i m a manager for a company although every bit of me knows i have a lot more than some people every bit of me is telling me to sell up and run away or sell up go to university or sell up and move up north now each of these scenarios don t make too much sense but my body is calling for it and it s like i m fighting with myself here, any advice would be great.

    4 AnswersRenting & Real Estate4 years ago
  • Ladies i need your help please, on how to approach a woman i don't know.?

    Okay seen her around my area i know she lives nearby she has a daughter and i've only ever seen them two together, how can i start a conversation or get to know her without it looking creepy?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Should i apologise to this lady?

    Okay so this one is a bit of a silly/long story so here we go.

    I was working in the office, this lady looked in staring at me, i got in my car drove home for lunch as i pulled out of the car park she was staring at me, i then thought began to develop an interest in her.............

    Noticed she walks into the local cafe for lunch so there i went there after.

    She began to talk to her friends about me and they would turn around as soon as i entered and there would be weird looks etc.

    We then began talking to each other eventually............ then she brought in her boyfriend who didn't look like he looked after himself at all.

    Then she started going into the cafe at irregular times and i did just to see her.

    After a while maybe my actions were obvious i was interested in here as she gave these funny looks at the lady who owned the cafe the kind of "i told you he would be here when i was here again" kind of look.

    So after realising maybe she wasn't interested in me i stopped going in there as soon as i stopped she started looking into the office and talking to her friends saying look he's sitting down.

    Then i went back in there and she ordered the drink for me and i never went back the day after as one she was taken and two it's all too confusing for my brain to process.

    So i've now given up but should i apologise to her for kind of stalking her not exactly stalking but making sure i was in the cafe at a similar time?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Alienated with my generation, Alienated in general, is it just me?

    People my age seem to want to go on social media, Upload photos of themselves 24/7 use popular american reality based catchphrases, Do nothing and just get drunk or go clubbing,

    I cant resonate with this culture and i have tried believe me!

    I have a clear vision of what i want, but i can never really seem full filled i am 23 years old, I am an author, a musician and a manager at work and i'm soon to be studying psychotherapy i thought once i'd have a book out i'd be satisfied but i wasn't so i wrote another and it means nothing, i though having an album out would make me satisfied but it doesn't i feel like it was just on a check list rather than a goal even though it was a goal, And once i become a qualified psychotherapist i know it will mean nothing.

    What I'm saying after summarising what I've just written is i think I'm an alien to myself as well i feel alienated towards most people around me.

    It feels like i've been pulled out of the wrong era and placed into this one, it seems without being too judgemental most people seem almost hypnotised by a routine and they walk around shopping centres not even looking where there going, and i have to move myself out of the way all the time.

    Finding meaning or finding purpose i have many more goals but are these cover ups that i've set myself so i don't feel even more alienated?

    1 AnswerPsychology6 years ago
  • Problem with iphone 4s?

    Okay so this is the problem,

    I can call but i can't hear anyone on the other end and they cannot hear me what is the problem to fix this?

    Any help would be great, i should let you know that it did work at the start now it doesn't and i haven't messed with anything!!

    2 AnswersPDAs & Handhelds6 years ago
  • Why are dopamine levels low for depressed people?

    I have been reading about depression recently but nowhere have I found anything about why dopamine levels are low for depressed people?

    I've looked online and found nothing,

    I would like to know from negative thinking how then the dopamine levels become low and you lose your passion and drive for things.


    1 AnswerPsychology6 years ago
  • can i write truthful but negative statements about coke in the book im writing?


    so here is what I have said

    Why not to drink coke?

    Coke is a poison to us humans, the carbonation in coke proves to be the most damaging, it irritates the stomach and it cures this irritation in the only method it knows how to by adding anti acid at its disposal by stealing the calcium from our blood, the blood which now is low in calcium replenishes it’s supply from our bones, softening our bones and making them brittle, so the carbonation depletes the calcium in our bones, the phosphoric acid reduces the calcium in our bones.

    Coke is also great as a cleaning product; as it’s very acidic, want to remove blood stains? Clean tile grout? Make those pennies sparkle? Clean your car battery? Loosen those rusty bolts? Coke will do that just for you! So just imagine what it does to your body! That’s not to say coke is the only bad product there are millions out there, do your research and you’ll see what I mean.

    So what will you do now? Will you still drink the stuff?

    could I get sewed even though this is factual evidence?

    5 AnswersBooks & Authors6 years ago
  • Mercedes W203 Transmission problems?

    I have a Mercedes w203 c180, it's automatic btw, I went shopping yesterday and it was very difficult for me to get past 22mph I had to put my foot on the accelerator all the way down for it to eventually run smoothly about 35mph it always seemed to be on the same speed of 22mph that it just couldn't shift,

    and the car was jerking when my foot was on the accelerator to try and go past 22mph

    does anyone know what the problem is? expensive job?

    8 AnswersMercedes-Benz6 years ago