So I'm just wondering when, in all areas of any happenings that should have a "Meet In The Middle". Where family members or who ever want to have their input added in the mix can. Where it will work out. Say like:
What color of the exterior of the family house should be.
The remodeling of an area of the family house, like a style, décor of how it should look.
What type of style lighting should be changed for which part of the house that getting that.
When a family member need a little of some home care in helping out on physical therapy of area(hand, walking, and even a little bit of speech) and what ever else the person need like help to the restroom. A member say will also have that do house work too. But another say NO, I don't like a person touching our stuff, ask where what, can this be thrown away. It like don't have the patience for that. Like Alice on the Brady Bunch, Alfred in the Batman universe or Mr. Belvedere(from the TV series). It like the person will understand the physical therapy helping part is more important, but just does not want what the other part a family member want also in addition to it. More like rather be like single people who never got married and living with a roommate, that don't clean the house that much. But still do and not let it go real bad.
I could go on with different happenings, but might be good enough.
Of course in the real world, at work it might be harder to have that happen in group projects.