Im 40, married, 3 years, yet have never been this lonely in my whole life. I have Lupus and am pretty sick. It has gotten much worse the last two years. Im sick probably 25 days a month. I guess its more than my husband, my family, my friends can handle. For no one wants to be with me. Im not fun any more. Guess im boring now and they feel theres nothing they can do. Theres nothing the doctors can do either, they are at a loss.