• Why does God allow men to cheat on women and hurt women?

    Do these men that do cheat, not realize how much women hurt when they look at other women and cheat on their spouses or do they just not care because they are being selfish and only thinking of themselves? Also, the women that make it tempting for men to cheat, how come they feel like they have to do this? Don't these women understand that they... show more
    Do these men that do cheat, not realize how much women hurt when they look at other women and cheat on their spouses or do they just not care because they are being selfish and only thinking of themselves? Also, the women that make it tempting for men to cheat, how come they feel like they have to do this? Don't these women understand that they are hurting women, too just like the men that cheat do? Don't these women care about being classy and respecting another woman's husband or boyfriend? By the way in God's eyes when a man and woman have sex they are considered one and are married in God's eyes even if they did not get the proof on paper in a court of law by a judge. Marriage is just to make it official and have the proof down on paper so they can have a symbol of their love for each other. These women that dress tempting in pornography or just anywhere in public or in magazines and don't care if a man is another woman's husband/boyfriend and just sleep with him anyways or let him see their naked private, personal, revealing parts, are home wrecker's and very selfish, only thinking of themselves. They are stealing a man away from who they are really supposed to be with (because they chose to be in a relationship with a woman they must and should stick by her side or don't ever get in any type of a sexual relationship with her if they know they will not or might not stick by her side). Theft is a crime and infidelity is a crime in the U.S. believe it or not. It is a misdemeanor crime to cheat on a spouse and it is very selfish and prideful to cheat. In South Holland, Illinois, a church going suburb nicknamed "a community of churches" right near the south side of Chicago ( I live in Chicago) , it is illegal to buy and or sell and distribute pornography and it is punishable by fines and other punishments. Now if it is illegal just to sell and buy pornography then that means it is certainly bad and considered cheating just to look at other women. It's also a turn off to a lot of women when a man they like/love looks and stares at other women up and down like drooling dogs with no self-control because they only want to satisfy their own lustful greedy desires to have every woman out there. Look it up on Wikipedia if you don't believe me. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/South_Holla... Plus, I always go to South Holland and I love it there. I want to move there someday with my future husband. Anyways, it is not right to lust after Jezebel women that dress revealing in very little clothing and revealing clothing and it's also not right to cheat and I don't understand why so many people these days act like it is alright to cheat. It's crazy out there in this world. Mostly men act this way so that they can have an excuse to justify their actions and keep on doing it. Don't say I'm a judgmental Christian either because I am not judging I am stating what is the truth and the truth is not judging. I don't like porn and I don't watch it is filthy and gross. Yes I know it is gross because I am not gonna lie I was curious and I checked out porn once before when I was really young and I felt disgusted and sick to my stomach watching so I never want to watch it again. It's like worse than wild animals and zoo animal behavior seriously. People licking butts and men going in a woman's anus. Don't people know that your butt hole is not for sex it's to have food waste come out of? Then these men in the pornography have anal sex and then go in the woman's vagina afterwards. So totally gross and bacterial infection and a woman can get a Urinary Tract Infection from that. Ewww, gross and so filthy dirty. Don't porn stars know that having unprotected anal sex with a woman (and lot's of women), then going in her/their vagina(s) afterwards, can cause anal cancer and cause the woman to get a UTI afterwards? Only the vagina is meant for sex. The mouth is only meant for eating and coughing irritants out of the lungs and breathing oxygen to survive. People put such little value on life and take life for granted, seriously. Why do these woman want to put themselves at risk of a UTI like this? Perhaps maybe lack of knowledge and ignorance, perhaps? Why do you think God let's this happen and do you think he will definitely end all this garbage sin one day for good? I sure hope so. This is not meant to offend anyone at all. I'm just stating some real talk here. It's will be sad if anyone out there doesn't agree with me on this than maybe they need their head checked out and some serious help from a behavior counselor or something. For real. I'm just asking what other people think about this. I would like to know what your thoughts on this is, please. Thanks for taking the time to read this because I know it is long. Sorry. @ phil loves satan Yes women do cheat like men do but I don't think that women cheat just as much as men cheat. Statistics show that men cheat a more than women do and women are more likely than men to remain faithful to their spouse/boyfriend. Also women usually cheat for different reasons than men cheat and women cheat after the man cheated first in order to try to get back at the men for cheating. @ I am already disturbed. Please Yes you get my appreciation and thankfulness for taking the time out to read it all. That is if you like to read it all but it's your choice. I ain't mad at you. @Micael also the man probably just pretended to make a commitment to the woman but he really didn't mean it in his heart and he still thought he could have his cake and eat it to. So them the married woman probably find out about how the man was being so dis-respectful, cheating, maybe calling her names like "fat" (because she had kids and a lot of women can't help that they get pregnancy fat on their bodies after they have babies and it is very hard if not impossible to get rid of pregnancy fat plus it's in their genes to get fat when they are older and after they had a baby with their husband and a lot of men get fatter as they get older too) so she wanted to stick up for herself and defend herself like any strong woman would do. So the man just walks away in another room to ignore and not have to face the truth and apologize to the woman that can't help that it is in her genes to get after pregnancy fat and the man thinks it is better than facing to truth s @Micael truth so he just runs away from his commitment he took on instead of staying around for better or for worse til' death and grey old hair and changing looks come to be because he wants a younger skinny woman. People, men and women, start loosing looks as they age and no one that lives to really old age can keep their same good looks their whole life. @ Micael So why doesn't the husband stick around and still love the woman after she can't help getting baby fat on her body from her genes and hereditary traits. So some women can't help it that that happens and other women get fat because the man made them depressed and stressed out with his constant lusting after jezebel women that don't care either. @ Micael So the man goes to the woman that doesn't really care about anyone else's feelings instead of staying with the one that truly loved him. They say that people usually hurt the one that loves them the most. Must be true to some degree because I see it happening all the time around me, Micael. So to say Micael, that verse in the book of Proverbs goes for women too and not just men. That verse applies to all mankind not just men alone because the same thing happens to women. The men nag the wife by cheating and then they make the woman nag when they do this and call them fat so it is better for a woman to get away from her cheating husband as quick as possible instead of sticking around or else she suffers the consequences and keeps on hurting form his cheating ways. @Micael also In the Bible God says he hates divorce a lot but for a woman or man that is hurting form a cheating spouse he will allow it so that they can be healed and get away from their cheating spouse. That is partly what that verse in Proverbs is referring too, okay. God allows people to get away from someone else that is hurting them or for both people to get away from each as quickly as possible so nether person gets hurt by the other person's actions and selfishness. SO it is better for any person to get away from a bad hurtful sinful situation as quick as possible to avoid hurting the person or the person hurting them. Please excuse the typos. I'm trying to type quickly and I didn't proofread it that good. I tried to proof read it quickly by skimming over it. It's late at night where I am and I am getting sleepy.
    22 answers · Religion & Spirituality · 5 years ago
  • If saving your virginity for your spouse is so important in the Muslim faith, then why is polygamy allowed?

    Men can't save their virginity for several spouses - they also cannot treat those spouses as "equal" (as they are supposed to) if one gets their virginity, and the others are left with "used goods". Hmm? Oh? And I suppose if Allah told you to jump off a bridge, you would do it too, huh?
    Men can't save their virginity for several spouses - they also cannot treat those spouses as "equal" (as they are supposed to) if one gets their virginity, and the others are left with "used goods". Hmm? Oh? And I suppose if Allah told you to jump off a bridge, you would do it too, huh?
    6 answers · Religion & Spirituality · 5 years ago
  • Genesis 3:8, does it really mean "sound" or "voice"?

    KJV says voice. Other versions of the Bible say sound. I suppose they think they've solved the problem? But, in my humble opinion it is probably voice. Because, I do not think that God was walking around in the garden. I think what the Bible is saying is that Adam and Eve were walking in the garden, and then they hear God's voice, and then... show more
    KJV says voice. Other versions of the Bible say sound. I suppose they think they've solved the problem? But, in my humble opinion it is probably voice. Because, I do not think that God was walking around in the garden. I think what the Bible is saying is that Adam and Eve were walking in the garden, and then they hear God's voice, and then they hide amongst the trees. That makes perfect sense to me. (KJV) Genesis 3:8 And they heard the voice of the LORD God walking in the garden in the cool of the day: and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the LORD God amongst the trees of the garden. So you would agree with me sunshine? voices don't walk do they?
    5 answers · Religion & Spirituality · 6 years ago