• My boyfrnd of 4 years says he wants to move together first before marriage, but im 4mths pregnant and want marriege before the baby. Advise?

    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years...we had always talked about marriage but he hasnt propsed to me yet. I found out im pregnant so that really had me pushing towards marriage especially with my Christian upbringing. I dont want it to seem as if we are getting married because im pregnant...i want him to marry me because he... show more
    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years...we had always talked about marriage but he hasnt propsed to me yet. I found out im pregnant so that really had me pushing towards marriage especially with my Christian upbringing. I dont want it to seem as if we are getting married because im pregnant...i want him to marry me because he wabts to spebd the rest of our lives together. So my boyfriend and I have talked and he said that he wants to first move in together before we make a commitment..but I dont think that matters if you love me and we been together for almost 5 years you should have been married me...and now that im pregnant should push you to commit to me. I live with my parents he lives in his own place with a roommate...Im over there everyday cleaning doing laundy we making love its basically like I live there but he says its not how it would be if we actually atayed under one roof. My boyfriend loooks like he is set in his own way...but I wabt to be married before this baby arrives. Any advice??
    30 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 6 days ago
  • Is it wrong to do this to my husband?

    Sometimes I slip tablets into my husband's coffee or tea to help stimulate him to have sex with me. Sometimes he's too tired or never aroused We had a dry spell where we would have sex once a month. Now with using the tablets we have sex 3-5 days a week. One of my girlfriend's suggested this and I feel good about it. But another... show more
    Sometimes I slip tablets into my husband's coffee or tea to help stimulate him to have sex with me. Sometimes he's too tired or never aroused We had a dry spell where we would have sex once a month. Now with using the tablets we have sex 3-5 days a week. One of my girlfriend's suggested this and I feel good about it. But another friend of mine said its immoral and said I should divorce him for not naturally being able to have sex as much as I desire. Am I horrible wife?
    62 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 6 days ago
  • Caught my boyfriend masturbating to porn?

    Ok so I know it's normal for people to be horny. I also know that some people enjoy porn. Even if my boyfriend watches porn, fine...but this happened in my house while myself and my family was home. After we had dinner with my family, he went in the bathroom to shower. After a few minutes, I opened the door to get something (we always walk in on... show more
    Ok so I know it's normal for people to be horny. I also know that some people enjoy porn. Even if my boyfriend watches porn, fine...but this happened in my house while myself and my family was home. After we had dinner with my family, he went in the bathroom to shower. After a few minutes, I opened the door to get something (we always walk in on each other) and there was standing there naked masturbating to porn on his phone. He quickly grabbed his phone and made it look like he was about to hop in the shower. We both looked embarrassed, so I shut the door. When he got out, he had a nervous laugh and when I asked him why he was watching porn, he claimed he was doing it to last longer for us later. Whether that's true or not, doesn't matter. Clearly he was horny and couldn't help himself. Before you jump down my throat and say "big deal everyone watches porn", please think about the fact that there's a place and time for everything and I just don't feel like my family's bathroom, after dinner was the right place or time. We have a good sex life, but now I feel like maybe I'm not satisfying him enough? I understand him doing this if I'm not around and we haven't had sex in a long time, but in my house when he can just come have sex with me? Really? Is this normal? Should I be upset and/or worried? Is this a sign that he might be addicted to porn/sex? Seriously guys, I just want some honest opinions. Thanks! Also, we were both in a rush to take showers so that we can watch a show with my family. I don't know if it's the actual masturbating I have a problem with or the fact that he was getting off to pornstars aka whores, when he has me in the other room.
    52 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 week ago
  • Fantasy to see wife with other men? advice? advice to get started? not get started? why are people saying ill soon be divorced?

    will I soon be divorced because she will find better sex or from continuing to ask her? be specific please
    will I soon be divorced because she will find better sex or from continuing to ask her? be specific please
    14 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 month ago
  • Why would he marry me if he didnt like my size?

    When my husband and i got married i was 195lb. I got pregnant after a year of marriage and went up to 220lb. I lost a lot of weight after pregnancy and im down to 185lb but i noticed recently that my husband stares at me in disgust which idk why because im smaller than my pre-pregnancy weight and i omly got one stretch mark from the pregnancy. I... show more
    When my husband and i got married i was 195lb. I got pregnant after a year of marriage and went up to 220lb. I lost a lot of weight after pregnancy and im down to 185lb but i noticed recently that my husband stares at me in disgust which idk why because im smaller than my pre-pregnancy weight and i omly got one stretch mark from the pregnancy. I also notice he looks at the girls who are skinny with a big butt. Neither of which i am or have. Im usually a confident person but he makes me 2nd guess that. Why would he marry me if he prefers the skinny ladies?
    10 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 month ago
  • What should I do about my friend and my wife?

    I have a friend who made me feel uncomfortable around my wife, he was calling her pretty and saying how lucky I was to have her. Well I kept it to myself trusting my wife l, but 2 months later her phone alarm starts to ring I go to shut it off and their are 3 texts from him. So curiously I looked and they have been texting for the last 2 months him... show more
    I have a friend who made me feel uncomfortable around my wife, he was calling her pretty and saying how lucky I was to have her. Well I kept it to myself trusting my wife l, but 2 months later her phone alarm starts to ring I go to shut it off and their are 3 texts from him. So curiously I looked and they have been texting for the last 2 months him flirting with her saying he's thinking about doing dirty things to her and how she can do better then me and how beautiful she is and that he misses her. But she would redirect the conversation when he did those things to other non flirty topics l, but I had no idea they were texting in the first place so should I keep him as a friend and should I be worried about my wife?
    24 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 month ago
  • Man i have been dating for a couple of months but yet to sleep with said he wanted to f*** the s*** out of me. Is this offensive?

    I have been dating a man for 3 months. Its a long distance relationship. We have caught up several times but yet to have sex. We text everyday and have been very keen on each other and conversation has turned sexual at times. He recently sent a message saying 'im going to f*** the s*** out of you soon'. He was drinking at the time he sent... show more
    I have been dating a man for 3 months. Its a long distance relationship. We have caught up several times but yet to have sex. We text everyday and have been very keen on each other and conversation has turned sexual at times. He recently sent a message saying 'im going to f*** the s*** out of you soon'. He was drinking at the time he sent it. Is this offensive to talk to a woman you want to have a relationship with so early on?
    10 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 month ago
  • Sleeping naked with my boyfriend...?

    Me and my boyfriend moved in together about a month ago, we're both 22, and we've been together for 5 years. I've always liked to sleep naked, and now we both sleep naked together. We usually have sex 4 or 5 times a week, but sometimes is not even sexual, we literally just sleep. For now everything is perfect, but my friends say this is... show more
    Me and my boyfriend moved in together about a month ago, we're both 22, and we've been together for 5 years. I've always liked to sleep naked, and now we both sleep naked together. We usually have sex 4 or 5 times a week, but sometimes is not even sexual, we literally just sleep. For now everything is perfect, but my friends say this is probably not good for the relationship in a long term, because he'll be used to see me naked, so it won't be special anymore. Is it true? Is sleeping naked with my boyfriend a bad thing?
    19 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • Why would my husband want to tape himself impregnating me?

    We are trying for our first baby and my husband wants to tape us making the baby. He says I wish there was a way they could do it live as he has that moment where he drops that baby making load guaranteed to knock me up so we can watch it from before the moment it is made and watch it be made before our very eyes. He says he wants to have sex with... show more
    We are trying for our first baby and my husband wants to tape us making the baby. He says I wish there was a way they could do it live as he has that moment where he drops that baby making load guaranteed to knock me up so we can watch it from before the moment it is made and watch it be made before our very eyes. He says he wants to have sex with me on video. Why would he want us to watch him getting me pregnant? I'm scared. Please help! He told me he wanted to drop that baby making load guaranteed to knock me up. Those were his words, not mine. I love him and I think he just wants to watch how the baby is made in my body and watch it grow.
    21 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 months ago
  • My boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend . But I don’t want to leave him?

    Me and my SO have only been together for 5 months. And today I found out that he slept with my best friend. Up until now he has been great to me. But we had a bit of a fight that night where he thought I was breaking up with him. And he and my bed friend got really really drunk and ended up having sex. He is very upset and is begging me to forgive... show more
    Me and my SO have only been together for 5 months. And today I found out that he slept with my best friend. Up until now he has been great to me. But we had a bit of a fight that night where he thought I was breaking up with him. And he and my bed friend got really really drunk and ended up having sex. He is very upset and is begging me to forgive him. I don’t know what to do because I love him so much and I don’t want to break up. But at the same time I don’t think this is something you can get over. I don’t know what to do is that something that can’t be forgiven???
    31 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago