• Struggling to deal with controlling daughter in law. Who is controlling my son and grandchildren?

    My daughter in law controls everything to do with my son and grandchildren. Everything has to be done on her terms and her rules. On Monday I received a text message from her inviting me to my grandsons birthday party which will take place next month. I did not reply to her message, instead I called my son (the children's father!!) To ask about... show more
    My daughter in law controls everything to do with my son and grandchildren. Everything has to be done on her terms and her rules. On Monday I received a text message from her inviting me to my grandsons birthday party which will take place next month. I did not reply to her message, instead I called my son (the children's father!!) To ask about the details. I don't think I need to speak to her talking to my son is enough When I called my son to ask about the details he said "to be honest mum I don't know much about the party, I'm so backed up with work, it would be better to talk to mt wife. She is much more involved with the kids than I am. You always talk through me. I think it would be good if you learn to speak to my wife directly" THAT ISN'T MY SON SPEAKING. That's her!! She has put that in his head. I said that "I don't think it is necessary". He then said "mum no-one is asking you to speak to her everyday or anything and i can't force you to do anything that you don't want to do. I just think it would be beneficial if you started to speak directly regarding the kids, events and emergencies. It could just be a few words doesn't even have to be a full on conversation. Think about it" The truth is I don't want to speak to her ever. She has disrespected me in the past and I am not prepared to re invite that into my life. Now she is controlling everything. My son and now my grandchildren. What should I do and should I attend my grandsons birthday party
    10 answers · Family · 11 months ago
  • Why are pitbulls the most dangerous breed?

    Like what makes them so aggressive and deadly compared to every other dog? Because they aren't the biggest or the smartest. So what is it? And please just don't say owners, because they are bad owners that own every breed, but those other breeds don't maul and kill people. great anwser professor. i chose yours as the best because it... show more
    Like what makes them so aggressive and deadly compared to every other dog? Because they aren't the biggest or the smartest. So what is it? And please just don't say owners, because they are bad owners that own every breed, but those other breeds don't maul and kill people. great anwser professor. i chose yours as the best because it was the most informative and intelligent. you also included stats which was very helpful. i acutually asked this question for a school assignment.
    259 answers · Dogs · 1 year ago
  • Do you think God did something when they changed the requirements at this calling center and then i got a job cause of it?

    There is this calling center in my area that i had applied for but could never get in, They had my number cause i had filled out an application before and last wk they called me about interviewing, i told them i didnt do good on their assessment so i wasnt sure i could get the job, they said they took that requirement out, i went in for the... show more
    There is this calling center in my area that i had applied for but could never get in, They had my number cause i had filled out an application before and last wk they called me about interviewing, i told them i didnt do good on their assessment so i wasnt sure i could get the job, they said they took that requirement out, i went in for the interview and now theyre putting me thru their training, sometimes i wonder if god went out of his way to change the rules to get me employed, do you think thats what happened? and yes, im taking it. i start training in a couple of wks
    14 answers · Other - Careers & Employment · 2 years ago
  • How do you know if you didnt happen to see an angel instead of a person?

    Ive been kind of wondering about this since yesterday. I usually go to this church on friday nights thats really close to my place. about 2 blocks away, kind of 4 since i have to walk around so i can cross at streetlights. Anyways, it was raining a little bit when I left so i took an umbrella with me, i shouldve taken another one cause the... show more
    Ive been kind of wondering about this since yesterday. I usually go to this church on friday nights thats really close to my place. about 2 blocks away, kind of 4 since i have to walk around so i can cross at streetlights. Anyways, it was raining a little bit when I left so i took an umbrella with me, i shouldve taken another one cause the sticks in them can fall apart but i thought it was okay since i had put them back together. It started to thunder and then it was getting really windy and raining harder, the wind started to break my umbrella apart and i was getting all wet. I tried to just hold it over my head so i wouldnt get wet. then when i was holding on to it and i was about a block away all of a sudden I see this guy coming over to me and just hands me an umbrella. Just out of the blue. I thanked him for it and gave him mine and told him if he wanted to he could put the sticks back and use it. I have never seen this guy before and probably never will again. It just happened so fast. It took me by surprise too but ive wondered if i ran into a guy that was just being nice or into a person that was really an angel. I did keep the umbrella too since it works better anyways and it makes a nice souvenier. so who did i really run into? any ideas? it just seemed so unusual. it did stop raining on my walk back . Anyone ever have this happen to them? I mightve encountered one other times as well. like when i fell in the ice and someone helped me up.
    31 answers · Polls & Surveys · 2 years ago
  • Jehovah's witnesses, will animals still die in paradise?

    the bible says in paradise death will be no more. does that mean animals wont die? what about plants? can we still eat animals in paradise? also, what about overpopulation? will the earth ever be overpopulated since there is no more death? only Jehovah's witnesses pls.
    the bible says in paradise death will be no more. does that mean animals wont die? what about plants? can we still eat animals in paradise? also, what about overpopulation? will the earth ever be overpopulated since there is no more death? only Jehovah's witnesses pls.
    22 answers · Religion & Spirituality · 8 years ago
  • TransUnion messed up my credit information. How can I fix it?

    Okay so another persons name came out on my free annual credit report. I contacted TransUnion to fix it but since they are so incompetent they erased all of MY information like my school loans and credit cards and left the other persons information. so basically its like that person is using my social security. I tried to get another credit report... show more
    Okay so another persons name came out on my free annual credit report. I contacted TransUnion to fix it but since they are so incompetent they erased all of MY information like my school loans and credit cards and left the other persons information. so basically its like that person is using my social security. I tried to get another credit report but I can t access it because they ask me questions about the other person. How can I fix this? I call & call TransUnion for help & they NEVER help me they only make things worse.
    3 answers · Credit · 3 years ago
  • Anyone else do nothing for their birthdays?

    I'm 19 years old, 20 later this month and have never done anything for my birthday, you're probably wondering why, but its because I've never really had friends to do stuff with and none of my family like us because my dad and the only ones that do live on the other side of the world, literally in New Zealand i'm from England. Your... show more
    I'm 19 years old, 20 later this month and have never done anything for my birthday, you're probably wondering why, but its because I've never really had friends to do stuff with and none of my family like us because my dad and the only ones that do live on the other side of the world, literally in New Zealand i'm from England. Your 18 is meant to be special all I did was stay at home, the same with my sisters too my older sister recently turned 21 another special birthday and all we did was go for a KFC. It's sad and embarrassing but its always been the case I've never had friends, just people I hang around with the type that would not invite me to their birthdays even if I was their only friend. I've recently moved house and the people I have spoken to have mentioned going clubbing but I know for a fact nothing will happen because I only speak to these guys during college and my birthday is in half term. So does anyone else never do anything, would be good to know i'm not the only one. lol.
    3 answers · Other - Holidays · 5 years ago
  • For all christians: Deuteronomy 25:11-12?

    11 If two men are fighting and the wife of one of them comes to rescue her husband from his assailant, and she reaches out and seizes him by his private parts, 12 you shall cut off her hand. Show her no pity. What does this mean? Does it mean if she grabs her husbands balls, the hand has to be cut off, or the assaliant's? Does this... show more
    11 If two men are fighting and the wife of one of them comes to rescue her husband from his assailant, and she reaches out and seizes him by his private parts, 12 you shall cut off her hand. Show her no pity. What does this mean? Does it mean if she grabs her husbands balls, the hand has to be cut off, or the assaliant's? Does this outlaw any strikes to the groin?
    2 answers · Religion & Spirituality · 8 years ago
  • I don't want to read too far into this but,could this mean anything?

    There is a girl in my class that I don't really talk to. Anyway she's a nice girl, she is cute and I don't want to mess up so here's what happened, it's not very much. I went to the orthodonist this morning and as I was called back I'm walking and suddenly the girl from my class appears at the corner, stops, sees me, smiles... show more
    There is a girl in my class that I don't really talk to. Anyway she's a nice girl, she is cute and I don't want to mess up so here's what happened, it's not very much. I went to the orthodonist this morning and as I was called back I'm walking and suddenly the girl from my class appears at the corner, stops, sees me, smiles sooo sweet at me and keeps walking. Now tomorow I'm going to saay something to her about it. But how can I say "Do you want to be friends" as inderctly as possible to her? I don't want to seem desperate oro too obvious. Also how can I tell if she'll be interested?
    2 answers · Friends · 1 decade ago
  • Tell me about the provisional driver's license here in california?

    Is it true that starting in 2008, people with provisional driver's license can no longer drive if they are younger than 18?
    Is it true that starting in 2008, people with provisional driver's license can no longer drive if they are younger than 18?
    1 answer · Law & Ethics · 1 decade ago
  • So if we all just believe hard enough ...?

    ... will we turn into christians?
    ... will we turn into christians?
    1 answer · Religion & Spirituality · 8 years ago
  • If jesus is God why asking for help from his father why?

    If jesus is God why he pray according to bible He worshiped the Father (John 17) He prayed to the Father (John 17:1) He was called man (Mark 15:39; John 19:5). He was called Son of Man (John 9:35-37) He was tempted (Matt. 4:1) He grew in wisdom (Luke 2:52) He died (Rom. 5:8)
    If jesus is God why he pray according to bible He worshiped the Father (John 17) He prayed to the Father (John 17:1) He was called man (Mark 15:39; John 19:5). He was called Son of Man (John 9:35-37) He was tempted (Matt. 4:1) He grew in wisdom (Luke 2:52) He died (Rom. 5:8)
    9 answers · Religion & Spirituality · 8 years ago
  • Two types of christians?

    christians#1:gossipy, sneaky, judgemental, arrogant, snotty, mean, just a mess! christaians#2:kewl, down the earth, nonjudgemental, giving, caring, and all that good stuff why most christians think they are so holy and full of christ they look down on others im christian but i will go to a club a party and everything because i dont keep god in a... show more
    christians#1:gossipy, sneaky, judgemental, arrogant, snotty, mean, just a mess! christaians#2:kewl, down the earth, nonjudgemental, giving, caring, and all that good stuff why most christians think they are so holy and full of christ they look down on others im christian but i will go to a club a party and everything because i dont keep god in a box. as long as i dont follow with the crowd im str8. dont you think?? have you ever been judged by christian#1
    10 answers · Religion & Spirituality · 8 years ago
  • How would you explain the difference between an eye for and eye and do not kill.?

    I have a bible study that ask me to explain this for him. I would love to hear others thoughts. This question is intended for JW, please. Wow, such aggression from some. I didn't say that I did not know the answer...I simply ask for others to respond. Don't assume something without knowing, that's risky in life. I will admit... show more
    I have a bible study that ask me to explain this for him. I would love to hear others thoughts. This question is intended for JW, please. Wow, such aggression from some. I didn't say that I did not know the answer...I simply ask for others to respond. Don't assume something without knowing, that's risky in life. I will admit though, the question is stated a little abruptly because I was in a hurry. This was the wording that the young man studying used...
    9 answers · Religion & Spirituality · 9 years ago