Last night, my husband and I had a cocktail party for his work.(He got promoted so we had to invite everyone who worked at his office. His ex gf is his secretary, but I made sure she sits as far away from his cubicle as possible, so she had to come too. :( We had a dance floor at our party. So they went to dance, and his ex starts saying: wow tiger you are such a good dancer! Growl! And starts to stroke the back of his neck! URRGH! Can you believe her? I pulled them away from the dance floor and started yelling at them outside she then had to leave. After the party my husband started hugging me and kissing me and I was like leave me alone! And then he said I love you. Me: first you flirt with her AND dance with her and now you love me? And I loose control and start throwing spoons at him! ( I still can't believe I did that, normally I'm calm.)He then grabs my arms and pushes me (hard)onto the sofa and yells KNOCK IT OFF!!!! SHE'S JUST A FRIEND! That nite I made him sleep on the sofa.This morning he left to work without saying anything and later that day I get a tropical flower bouqet, a plane ticket, and a note saying meet me in Hawaii. He was planning this for a month and I did'nt no! Should I forgive him and meet him in Hawaii? I called him at work but his stupid secratary picked up and said TOO BAD you can't talk to him, and hung up. Please help. Thank you.