I have been married for2years, together for6. We only have sex like twice a month even though I'd like it more. My husband says he's tired of always having to be the one to initiate, he wants me to once in a while. That's understandable, but I've now realized that i don't know how to! I am 31 years old and have literally never had to initiate it. My technique had always been to kind of hint that I'm in the mood with my body language or some flirty comments or something, and then the guy pursues me. Last night i told myhusband i wanted to make out and other flirty things through the evening. When we put the kids to bed and got in bed, he didn't initiate anything. I told him i wanted him to kiss me, and he was like, "you can kiss me"...so i did, but it was really hard! Like, really awkward for me. Why is that so hard for me? Do i need sex therapy our something?can i get better at initiating sex?