• Is this customer being friendly or is he interested in me?

    You're interested in him. What difference does it make what he is? If you're afraid to make the 1st move, he is going to get away. You are going to hurt FOR A LONG TIME. Isn't that what you are doing to yourself NOW? Self Torturing, because you're SCARED? The ice is broken and the talks have started, so has the dating. Each... show more
    You're interested in him. What difference does it make what he is? If you're afraid to make the 1st move, he is going to get away. You are going to hurt FOR A LONG TIME. Isn't that what you are doing to yourself NOW? Self Torturing, because you're SCARED? The ice is broken and the talks have started, so has the dating. Each time he comes in and you engage each other IS A DATE. All that is left is for you BOTH to be Off The Clock. Tell him you are going for Ice Cream after work. Ask him if he would like to join you. You'll even let him pay. (he will like you sense of humor). How long your Desires Torture you, is now up to you. DO or DIE.
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 12 hours ago
  • I went on a complete insomnia rant on a group chat with a girl I like, are my chances ruined?

    Best answer: What is the girl like and did you bore her? Chances FOR WHAT??
    Best answer: What is the girl like and did you bore her? Chances FOR WHAT??
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 17 hours ago
  • Guys, would you create conversation with a girl for the first time just to be friendly or it's more than that?

    I PRACTICE with people all the time. My goal is to get TOTAL STRANGERS of any Age or Sex to Smile WITH me. As I PRACTICE I get confident and smooth. When I talk to a girl I like and never met before or I think she is checking me out, it becomes VERY EASY to start a conversation with her or Just Break The Ice. Practice ALL THE TIME, with anyone... show more
    I PRACTICE with people all the time. My goal is to get TOTAL STRANGERS of any Age or Sex to Smile WITH me. As I PRACTICE I get confident and smooth. When I talk to a girl I like and never met before or I think she is checking me out, it becomes VERY EASY to start a conversation with her or Just Break The Ice. Practice ALL THE TIME, with anyone and everyone. Crush or No Crush, you will be smooth and relaxed, because of PRACTICE. Practice is how sports people become SUPERSTARS.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 21 hours ago
  • Is she feeling some type of way about me?

    If you could go ONLINE and ask a bunch of STRANGERS questions, you can communicate the same way with her. Saying you can't, menas you're CHICKEN, which is okay, until you get Broken Hearted, because she ended up with SOME OTHER JERK, who doesn't Value her like you do. It's OK to let a girl know you are Nervous/Scared of getting... show more
    If you could go ONLINE and ask a bunch of STRANGERS questions, you can communicate the same way with her. Saying you can't, menas you're CHICKEN, which is okay, until you get Broken Hearted, because she ended up with SOME OTHER JERK, who doesn't Value her like you do. It's OK to let a girl know you are Nervous/Scared of getting hurt or making a mistake. Chances are she feels the same fear. You and Her SHOULD KNOW, that the only way to find out IF it is a mistake, is to do something... TAKE A CHANCE. Just be sure to AGREE to stay friends, IF you are not compatible. REJECTION ONLY COUNTS, IF YOU ACCEPT IT IF SHE SAYS: "I don't want to ruin our friendship OR I just wanna be friends” SMILE BIG, look her in the eye and say: "Then don't “F” this up for me." IF SHE SAYS: “I don’t know you well enough.” Remind her that Meeting Strangers is how New friends are made. DATES are a good way to get to know someone.” Or explain to her. "We can still be friends if this doesn't workout. Why would we HAVE TOO be enemies, just because we are not a match?" You don't have to be enemies. KEEP SMILING… She knows you’re right and You’ll look Confident to her.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 22 hours ago
  • Are you taken or single?

    BOTH. I will date any girl that want to spend time with me and get to know me. I entertain them very well, so I can get a second date or more with them. BUT, I stay Single, so I can date other girls at the same time. On the date I explain this to each girl, but still make sure she has FUN in my company. Usually they don't mind a second date... show more
    BOTH. I will date any girl that want to spend time with me and get to know me. I entertain them very well, so I can get a second date or more with them. BUT, I stay Single, so I can date other girls at the same time. On the date I explain this to each girl, but still make sure she has FUN in my company. Usually they don't mind a second date because I am FUN and HONEST with them.
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 22 hours ago
  • I have fallen for my teacher..?

    She probably has had other students in her past fall for her. Chances are very good SHE KNOWS. Guy have a way of SHOWING IT, even if they don't think so.
    She probably has had other students in her past fall for her. Chances are very good SHE KNOWS. Guy have a way of SHOWING IT, even if they don't think so.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 22 hours ago
  • Asked a girl out this was her response... Is there still hope?

    I never have much luck with girls, but I found out that if you don't give up, your chances are better to get with her. NEVER EVER ask for a Date directly. Play into it, for two reasons. One: You want Them smiling, relaxed and enjoying your company. Two: Most people smile when they blush and get embarrassed. This is in your favor. If... show more
    I never have much luck with girls, but I found out that if you don't give up, your chances are better to get with her. NEVER EVER ask for a Date directly. Play into it, for two reasons. One: You want Them smiling, relaxed and enjoying your company. Two: Most people smile when they blush and get embarrassed. This is in your favor. If They reject you, you can turn it around and still leave Them with a very good impression of your personality (The FAKE CONFIDENCE). Rehearse this until you are at least Semi Confident with it. (you'll feel better) This Is How Its Done: WITHOUT a Smile: Ask Her if She ever eats dinner in the evenings? She will say "YES". Now WITH a Big SMILE: Reply "Good "WE" have something in common. There is a restaurant at ( location ), they serve dinner in the evenings, wanna go see if there is anything "WE" like?" Keep the SMILE going and look "at" Her eyes. (NOT into Her eyes, "AT" her eyes) Those two tactics present FAKE CONFIDENCE, but she won't know that. If She says "NO", Don't Ask Why! Smile and say: "That is totally the wrong answer, but because I think you are worth it, I'm going to give you one more chance, please don't blow it, it'll break my heart." Keep smiling and ask Her AGAIN. If She says "NO". "Do Not" ask WHY!! Keep smiling and Say: "Are you kinda seeing someone?" If She says "NO". You Say: Wheww!! (AND Have compliments or simple questions ready to keep the conversation going with her.) If She says "YES". You Ask: "ARE you sure?" She will say "YES": You Ask: "Really?" She will say "YES". You Say: "Good. cuz if you're kinda seeing someone, that means you're kinda NOT, so You wanna go out sometime? Quit breaking my heart." (say these two lines together, without letting Her answer). Most girls Giggle right about now. Even if you still don't go out with Her, the chances of Her EVER meeting someone with GAME like you, are VERY SLIM FOR Her. If She Smiled and Laughed the whole time, this also opens the door to continuing contact with her. She totally enjoyed your company, while rejecting you. Holding the smile. It is the KEY. And since most people Smile when they get embarrassed, The Smile just became your weapon. VERY GOOD CHANCE She will smile the next time she sees you (with or without the someone she is "kinda" seeing.) I ONCE LET A GIRL KNOW THAT I LIKED HER CONFIDENCE is not about Succeeding. It's about NOT BEING AFRAID, to Step Up, whether you get Accepted or Rejected. REJECTION ONLY WORKS IF YOU ACCEPT IT. TRUE STORY: I once let a girl know that I liked her. She told me she didn't like me "like that." I said "That's okay, because I'm the one that LIKES YOU, I don't care if you don't like me. I still think you're pretty." After that I would just smile at her, say "Hi", "Good Morning." "Hello again." OR compliment her on anything I liked about her. It took about a week, but she got use to my being friendly with her and ALWAYS smiling. We ended up going out on a few dates. She told me she was surprised/flattered that I was still nice and smiled at her. She told me, NO OTHER GUY DOES THAT. We lasted about 6 months together and then stayed friends. (YEA, we stayed friends). She enjoyed my conversations and opinion on things. She liked that I was a gentleman with her but still outspoken, even if she didn't always like what I had to say or what I thought of things. She liked that I was REAL with her. If you let someone DISCOURAGE you, because they don't feel about you, like you do them. You'll lose and you'll hurt. BUT if you JUST SMILE and be a nice human being to them, they might start to like the idea that AT LEAST ONE PERSON in the whole school (or wherever you are) likes them. Your Heart and Desires Are Always About YOU. Who you "Like" DOES NOT count, until they are by your side. Who cares WTF they “Want”, “Think” or “Feel”. That is none of your business!! Your Business or Goal is to make them yours. Then give a "F" what they “Want”, “Think” or “Feel”. In my situation, We Each Spoke Our Piece. Her's NEVER Counted. I Listened to be Courteous, NOT Controlled. Nice Guys give up TOO EASY, I consider myself a PLAYER. I came up with ways to Reject, Rejection. I would rather walk away with both of US (me and the girl who rejected me) smiling or laughing, than to just walk away with my tail between my legs.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 22 hours ago
  • What does it feel like to be in love with someone? what makes you love them?

    You know what it's like to LAUGH and you know what causes it and why YOU do it. You know CRYING, FEAR, EMBARRASSMENT, SMILES, PAIN, CURIOSITY and other emotions. Only you know WHEN and WHY they happen TO YOU. The exact same things DO NOT make all people Cry or Laugh. You don't Love or Hate everybody you know, but you do some. That is... show more
    You know what it's like to LAUGH and you know what causes it and why YOU do it. You know CRYING, FEAR, EMBARRASSMENT, SMILES, PAIN, CURIOSITY and other emotions. Only you know WHEN and WHY they happen TO YOU. The exact same things DO NOT make all people Cry or Laugh. You don't Love or Hate everybody you know, but you do some. That is what LOVE feels like. Relationships give you experience on Right and Wrong ones.  LOVE Is NOT about being Happy. LOVE is being there “for” and “with” someone, when the Bad Stuff happens (as in for Better or Worse, in Sickness and Health, for Richer or Poorer), if you aren't up for this, you have NO BUSINESS involved in someone else's life. ESPECIALLY MARRIAGE.  In time, when you mature more... you'll have experiences. Experiences are the story of your LIFE, in Your Memories.
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Have you ever cheated on your partner? (just curious to see how many people actually cheat)?

    Yes. But I was also the one that told her.
    Yes. But I was also the one that told her.
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Is law of attraction real?

    YES. Attraction is based on looks, but personality will let you know if you are worth each other's while. Muscles and Make Up attract guys and girls to each other, but if the personalities SUCK, you have Nothing.
    YES. Attraction is based on looks, but personality will let you know if you are worth each other's while. Muscles and Make Up attract guys and girls to each other, but if the personalities SUCK, you have Nothing.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • What's your Most Awkward Sexual Experience?

    When I lost my Virginity. I had NO IDEA what I was doing and the girl knew it. I'm sure she told her friends and they had a good laugh at my expense, even if I'm not positive.
    When I lost my Virginity. I had NO IDEA what I was doing and the girl knew it. I'm sure she told her friends and they had a good laugh at my expense, even if I'm not positive.
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • I'm 30 and never been in a relationship?

    Many people feel many different ways. You'd be surprised. What I have come to learn/find out, is that MOST haven't even TRIED. Their FEAR or INSECURITY doesn't let them even chance TRYING. It's not a BAD THING, you just live your life, WITHOUT EVER REALLY LIVING. Cheating yourself out of the things that you're Curios or... show more
    Many people feel many different ways. You'd be surprised. What I have come to learn/find out, is that MOST haven't even TRIED. Their FEAR or INSECURITY doesn't let them even chance TRYING. It's not a BAD THING, you just live your life, WITHOUT EVER REALLY LIVING. Cheating yourself out of the things that you're Curios or Desire because you are scared, just keeps you from Growing and having the experiences and stories that others have. You pretty much learn to ENVY other people, because you NEVER tried Yourself. 30 is still young and nothing is ever TOO LATE, until you have been 6 feet underground for 3 weeks. THEN IT'S TOO LATE.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • My boyfriend dumped me but i've been saying that he cheated on me, which he basically did. im just so ashamed of being dumped, is this ok?

    If we say "NO, it's not Ok"... will you stop being ashamed????
    If we say "NO, it's not Ok"... will you stop being ashamed????
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Should I date someone in college or wait until I finish college?

    Let someone else date them, so by the time you finish college, there won't be anymore guys or girls left.
    Let someone else date them, so by the time you finish college, there won't be anymore guys or girls left.
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Does this sound like a good first date?

    Best answer: THE VERY FIRST DATE Go on a Date, BUT NEVER take a girl to a movie on a 1st date. The idea for Dating is to find out if there is anything between two people. Attraction is based on looks, but personality will let you know if you are worth each other's while. Just TALK. Get to know each other. At the movies you have to be... show more
    Best answer: THE VERY FIRST DATE Go on a Date, BUT NEVER take a girl to a movie on a 1st date. The idea for Dating is to find out if there is anything between two people. Attraction is based on looks, but personality will let you know if you are worth each other's while. Just TALK. Get to know each other. At the movies you have to be quiet. TOTALLY A BAD CHOICE. You won’t learn anything about each other. Dinner is going cost you $$$$$, plus you really can’t talk around a bunch of NOISY people, especially if you are both SHY. If your personalities suck for each other, you'll WASTE your money. She is not going to be impress with What You Feed her or How Broke You Became. SPEND TIME with HER--NOT Money on HER. You can get to know each other and have fun, walking, riding bikes, throwing a frisbee, playing card games, even studying math or writing a letter back n forth to each other and NOT use words during your time together. A DATE is NOT about getting dressed up, driving, spending money or even kissing at the end of the date. A Date is JUST SPENDING TIME getting to meet (know) each other. If in the future, you remember your time together… that's because it was a date (if it was Good or Bad, it's still a date). When you get together again, its a second date even if you still don't drive or spend a penny. You'll remember it in the future. IT'S A DATE. You NEVER have to spend a penny to have a date. Money is for the Event, NOT a good impression. Dating is an introduction to a relationship. If a DATE is accepted, it is a time for two people to spend time getting to know each other. It IS NOT a romantic event with promises or commitments. It's to find out if there is compatibility or personal interest between the two. It doesn't matter if a guy ask a girl or a girl ask a guy out on a date. As for conversations topics, The only thing that really matters is that she SMILED and enjoyed herself with your company. Compliment her on something you like about her. Smile at her, she will smile back automatically (this should be VERY easy for you, because you are HAPPY TO BE WITH HER). TO HOLD HER HAND When you have been with her for awhile and are side by side (walking, standing or sitting) gently take her hand and Say: "Can I borrow this for a little bit? I Promise to take care of it and return it in awhile" She will smile and probably be Impressed and Flattered. If she flinches and pulls away, chances are its a REACTION, NOT REJECTION. Smile and give her something of yours as deposit/collateral and Let her know you want it back when you return her, her hand or ask her hold something for you, when she agrees, put your hand in hers to hold. SMILE at her… she will like Your Humor.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Who pays on first date and what tips do you have?

    The idea for Dating is to find out if there is anything between two people. Attraction is based on looks, but personality will let you know if you are worth each other's while. Muscles and Make Up attract guys and girls to each other, but if the personalities SUCK, you have Nothing. If you are not sure about a person, THAT IS WHY YOU DATE... show more
    The idea for Dating is to find out if there is anything between two people. Attraction is based on looks, but personality will let you know if you are worth each other's while. Muscles and Make Up attract guys and girls to each other, but if the personalities SUCK, you have Nothing. If you are not sure about a person, THAT IS WHY YOU DATE THEM. To find out and be SURE and not worry or guess. Just TALK. Get to know each other. You NEVER have to SPEND MONEY to have a Date… you do "Have Too" SPEND TIME together. The only thing you "Have To PAY" is ATTENTION to your Date. (Pretty Much Anybody Can Afford That) Money is for the Event, NOT a good impression. You DO NOT have to be in a Relationship to DATE. You Date to see "IF" you want to be in a RELATIONSHIP.
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • My seven year old bro has a crush on me. I kno he is just seven. But I can sense it.?

    Are you like, his 37 year old sister OR WHAT????
    Are you like, his 37 year old sister OR WHAT????
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Best ways to dealing with heartbreak after you lost your lover?

    AFTER every Broken Heart, Bleeding Heart or Rejection, there is ALWAYS the next person you will like or likes you. If meeting people makes you NERVOUS, go out and break the ice with people who SCARE YOU. You won't be HURTING, because you'll be BUSY being Nervous. As meeting people gets EASIER for you, you'll gain more Confidence, not... show more
    AFTER every Broken Heart, Bleeding Heart or Rejection, there is ALWAYS the next person you will like or likes you. If meeting people makes you NERVOUS, go out and break the ice with people who SCARE YOU. You won't be HURTING, because you'll be BUSY being Nervous. As meeting people gets EASIER for you, you'll gain more Confidence, not to mention, your POPULARITY will grow. Now when One person says NO to you, you have 20 to 30 others to try next. There IS NOT a single Broken Heart that will MAKE YOU quit liking THE NEXT Guy or Girl.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • What is the best way to ask a girl for her number?

    To make a move like you are talking about will take at least A LITTLE BIT of Confidence. How to get ANYONE'S Cell Number (1) Try this: Tell her: "My phone or phone service is acting up. Can you give me a call, so I can check it out?" When she does, your phone will ring with her cell number. Show her your cell phone screen, ask her... show more
    To make a move like you are talking about will take at least A LITTLE BIT of Confidence. How to get ANYONE'S Cell Number (1) Try this: Tell her: "My phone or phone service is acting up. Can you give me a call, so I can check it out?" When she does, your phone will ring with her cell number. Show her your cell phone screen, ask her if that's HER number. She says "Yes". You say "Thanks, I owe you one." Later on call her, ask if she is busy, ask her to meet for coffee or milk shake as a thank you for helping you out earlier. Let her know it was your cell service. This works only if you are away from any landline. (2) No matter where you are. Turn off your phone. Tell her you misplaced it or lost it. Ask her if you can borrow hers, to call yours and make it ring. Ask her to go with you to retrace your last steps, while holding her phone. Chances are she will. Talk to her while you are together. Introduce yourself, get her name, ask simple questions about her smart phone, What she is doing there? What she thought of the event? Make a funny comment, like "Bet you didn't think you'd be my hero today... did you?" After a few minutes of FAKE SEARCHING. Ask her if you could buy her some fries or a coke or treat her to dinner, all for this help. If you can't do that. After you hand her, her phone back, tell her you know someone that would like to date her. She'll be surprised and ask Who? Gently grab her hand, take her to the nearest reflection and standing next to her Say: "Him." No matter what happens. You have her number now. Wait 5 or 6 hours later. Call her to thank her for her help (that is only good manners and true appreciation) and that you found your phone. If she ask where... go ahead and tell her. First giggle into the phone then say "It was in my pocket, turned off the whole time. I just wanted to meet you and now I have your number, but I was serious about treating you for your help. I like having a HEROINE." Rehearse this in your head, but not enough to make you too scared to do it. I do this on occasion. People think its very clever. But I'm a conversationalist, so for me it just kinda flows. (3) IF BY CHANCE you ask Her for Her number, punch it into YOUR phone and call her then and there. This will do TWO THINGS. [A] She didn't give you a false number. [B] She has your number and neither yours or hers will get lost, unless you lose the whole phone. Also let her know you're NOT a fan of texting. Some people take FOREVER to respond.
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Can woman survive without men?

    YES. That's what makes them the TOUGHER Sex. Men may be Stronger, but women are definitely TOUGHER. If you disagree, carry 8 pounds of sand on your belly for 9 months.
    YES. That's what makes them the TOUGHER Sex. Men may be Stronger, but women are definitely TOUGHER. If you disagree, carry 8 pounds of sand on your belly for 9 months.
    12 answers · Gender Studies · 2 days ago