for you to immigrate to the US you would have to get the relevant fiance or spouse visa
http://travel.state.gov/visa/immigrants/… ... I understand from other people that these are not easy to get, but if you are determined and can afford the fees it can be done
however, I had a friend who immigrated to the US who was a well qualified and experienced electrician in the UK ... he wasn't allowed to work in the US with his UK qualifications as their elec system there is substantially different to ours ... he had to re-take the US qualifications and even then found work scarce ... the marriage did survive because his wife was working and earning good money, but it took him about 5 years to make anything like a decent living