Why do girlfriends send sms's ALL the time. & get ticked off when you don't reply?

Question

Sheesh.

i mean i love my girlfriend and all.
but just not into messages when we're not together.

just wanted to hear from you ladies cos if i ask her, she might take it the wrong way, and it's not worth a row... i do love her. crazy about her.

Answer 1

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T.V and movies make the guy seem like a scumbag who is always cheating on the girl.

I hear you loud and clear on this. They message almost anything, half of it you cant really reply too, and they crack when you dont.

Luckily, most of these times, the girl says something that can be easily covered with a reply back "lol".

The easiest way is to randomly send a nice soppy i'm thinking of you message, either "I love xoxoxox" or "i miss you" depending on where you have her.

Just try to make her feel like she's always on your mind and you should be in the clear. Otherwise, make an over the top little dramam session where you complain about always having to reply. If you have her well in the relationship (shes afraid to lose you) a simple bit of anger over nothing can ajust her like they try to ajust you.

Goof luck, and dont let it get to you.

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Asker's Comment:

yeah.

Answer 2

It is just the difference in how the male/female brains work. Most guys are like U, and most girls are like her. She is just being a woman, and U R just being a guy. No big deal. Love her anyway, but do realize that women want and NEED more communication than most men are willing to give.

Answer 3

just text her, it doesn't take long at least say your busy text you later
we want to feel loved and she probably feels unloved therefore is texting you more

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experience

Answer 4

It's just what girls do. I do it, but i'm not sure why. Most of the time girls just want their boyfriends' attention, and they want to know you're thinking about them :)

Answer 5

cuz she thinks about u all the time when shes not with you an wants you to be thinkin about her too ... so she txts u a lot lol

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i did it to my boyfriend so he asked me y i did it lol

Answer 6

maybe she feels your ignoring her if you don't reply.
or she misses you?

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my life.

Answer 7

Dude all girls are like that,
They get pissed then complain.
Probably cuz she wants you
to tell her how much you love her...
~Your perfect enemy

Answer 8

she just misses you.

Answer 9

because she loves you and wants to know you love her back