What did he mean when he said all this?

Question

ok well me and my bf had a fight and after that he took me off facebook. its been a whole week since he has not contacted me but i saw him online and i said hi. how r u? and he said whats wrong? i dont knoww what he meant... so i said what do u mean and he said i mean nothing. anyway so i said ok how r u. then he said is it important for u 2 know how i am.. so i said yes thats why im asking.. then he said hes ok. thats it..

i then said why r u stubborn with me all the time.. he said i only spoke 2 u like that so i didnt have 2 rememeber u again.

what did he mean?? and why do u think he said all this? anyway i said hello fist thats when he started talking, and now hes added me 2 his yahoo list.

what is he thinking.. and what did he mean by "i didnt wanna remember u again"???

Im really confused.. is he hurt, or is he angry, stubborn? do u think he was waiting 4 me 2 say hi how r u?

Answer 1

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Geeze sorry you had to put up with this shitty attitude.

Judging by what you have written, it seems he's probably all three but being a guy he's probably got a lot more pride and he's playing with your emotions. Whatever you two were fighting about he may want to apologize but wants to provoke you so that you will speak to him.

This behaviour is very immature. If he was hurtful enough to write that he "doesn't want to remember" his girlfriend, then give him what he wants and don't contact him again for two weeks.

Show him that you've got more to your life than dealing with petty immaturity and he'll realise what a classy no-bullshit lady you are. If he loves you, he'll step up and be a man once he realises he's losing you.
If after two weeks he's still silent, tell him calmly and honestly how you feel and whether he will continue to ignore you. If he says yes or he doesn't respond, leave him for someone more communicative and responsible.

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Thanks lo :-)))

Answer 2

no he probably was waiting for you to say sorry. and
he probably likes you a lot but has to let you go.
good luck to ya

Answer 3

just apologize to him, are you guys still together because you guys just got into a fight ? ... but talk to him in person about it but sorry if this is hard to hear but i think he's moving on.

Answer 4

hm, ;/
maybe you should ask him if its over between you fullstop.
Then you can move on, and stop talking to him and being spoken to like crap.
Or you can get back together, and sort everytihng out
Good luck