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Iv never met my biological father and im trying to find him.?

I have never met my biological father and im trying to find him. I know his name is Paul mills and he lives in Nuneaton,UK. He was born 1972 (give or take 1/2 years). Iv tried looking on myspace,facebook etc but no luck. All the tracing sites have to be paid for and I dont want to do this unless its my last resort. Any ideas or anyone know him?thanks.
  • 9 months ago
Ally by Ally
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be careful
i know you prob know all this
but could end in tears
have you talked to your mom about him? she might know wher he would be
have you got anyone in the family that may know of him?
have you tried a archive centre?

good luck

xxx
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  • Sparx by Sparx
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    if youve never met him and he moved away then why would you want to meet him if hes never been there or not cared
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  • flying-elbow by flying-e...
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    hi its meeee, ow are we darlin??
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  • ladylj5748 by ladylj57...
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    Sometimes there are very good reasons not to find a "missing" parent. It sounds like your mom either doesn't know you are looking or doesn't want to help you. Have you asked her why?

    Give it some time. My ex disappeared from my kid's lives when they were little. When they were teens and I thought they were old enough to judge him for themselves, I put some effort into finding an address for them.

    After a 72hr tearful reunion, they've never heard from him again. Sometimes it's better not to have the pain.
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  • NitroFate by NitroFat...
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    I can understand why you would want to meet your real dad, someone you have never met before but if I were you I wouldn't.

    If he has NEVER been in your life, it's probably because he never wanted to be. He chose to run, rather than be a father. He turned he back on you, he disowned you. Either that or your mother purposely kept you away from him either because she was a maniac or had a very good reason to.

    Your choice
    • 9 months ago
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  • Maud L      nick-name,Eugenie by Maud L nick-name,Eugenie
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    iv never met my biological father and i am trying to
    find him.?
    answer-
    I am sure you will find him.
    but you need lots of patience.
    i wish you all the luck.
    ask god to come to your rescue .
    He is a loving and merciful God.
    may god help you in your search .
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  • xyz by xyz
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    ask your mum first. but you dont want to and you want to take a risk, go to the police and tell them about your situation and give them the details of your father. They could give you some leads. Good Luck!
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  • Ms. Yado by Ms. Yado
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    Hi, Sometimes that is not a good idea.
    You may not like your father.His personality is not a good one Maybe that is why he is not there.
    I found my half sister 6 years ago she hates me why I was raised by our Father.
    Have you heard the old saying "Be careful what you wish for you just might get it".
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  • CHRIS by CHRIS
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    http://search.ancestry.com/cgi-bin/sse.d…

    This link above (you may just click on it to see if will help you) came up when I Googled Paul Mills on my computer. Also, Ancestry.com... mentioned a Paul Mills in Gloucestershire, UK...

    http://www.researchmyfamily.com/McGx3.ht…

    Using this link right above, you can type in the appropriate information about Paul Mills and search it probably better than I would know how to do here in the U.S.A.

    http://search.ancestry.com/cgi-bin/sse.d…

    Yes, I know it is a bit nebulous, but perhaps these links will provide more encouragement for you to continue your search for information about him...

    There are listings for a Paul Mills in London, Surrey and in Kent. Now, I know these are older listings, but perhaps it will help to inspire you to keep at it until you find what you are searching for.

    Last Edited=2 Dec 2005
    Mary Violet Handley was born before 1926. She was the daughter of John Mills.1 She married Captain Geoffrey Robert St. John, son of Henry Percy St. John and Maud Louisa Glyn, on 4 March 1941.1 She died on 29 August 1951.1
    Mary Violet Handley was adopted by John Mills. Her married name became St. John.
    Citations
    [S37] Charles Mosley, editor, Burke's Peerage, Baronetage & Knightage, 107th edition, 3 volumes (Wilmington, Delaware, U.S.A.: Burke's Peerage (Genealogical Books) Ltd, 2003), volume 1, page 418. Hereinafter cited as Burke's Peerage and Baronetage, 107th edition.

    I believe the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints has a genealogical listing here in the United States which you may also locate and use.

    http://namesdatabase.com/schools/UK/WA/N…

    Reference right above here is to graduates or alumnae of Hartshill School
    Nuneaton, Warwickshire, United Kingdom ... reference lists a Daniel Paul Mills...

    Source(s):

    I know this is confusing, and may just be a whole lot of unrelated information, but it may also provide some kind of key to finding the information you are seeking. I do hope you find out about your father, and I hope the information and links I have provided here will help you to that end. Good Luck to you with this one.

    Sent with positive energies from Chris in South Portland, Maine, U.S.A. I am 65 and know what family can mean to a person. I sincerely hope you find out about him...
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  • Adrian by Adrian
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    Hi!!
    Why don't you try searching your father using a site with paid.. That would be the best thing to do.. Since doing searching through those site can have you comprehensive records found.

    Once when I searched for my cousin who lived afar from us, I used one of the site that offers people search. And luckily, thanks to the site I found and locate my cousin without hassle.

    So try it now. However, you have to choose for the right site that you think will be big help on your search..

    Good luck!!


    http://www.web-detective.com/index1.aspx
    • 9 months ago
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  • Facebook-Addict by Facebook...
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    Go onto the phone book website and type in his surname and location to see if he's listed in the phone book.

    Link:

    http://www.thephonebook.bt.com/publisha.…

    I typed in the surname and location and here were loads of peoples called Mills, there was one person called P.Mills who was on page 5 of results. Maybe it's him! Don't get your hopes up though!

    Good luck in your search :)



    Good luck!
    • 9 months ago
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