In most species of animals, the male is more colorful, more intense in color or pattern of fur or skin. Just look as birds. The male cardinal is vivid red. The female is more drab, less colorful. This allows her to blend in better with the environment, so she is more likely to successfully lay eggs and not get eaten by predators. Also, in most bird species, the male is the primary food gatherer (though by no means the only one; the female does her share, also). As harsh as it sounds, if the male is killed because of his brighter colors, or more obvious hair or fur, from an evolutionary point of view, there is less "loss" than if the female dies. She gives life and usually protects the young. So, if she dies, the hatchlings are more likely to die, also. I would think this same rule applies to humans, as it does in other monkey and ape species.