I have stayed at the Wyndham. It is very nice and clean. It is a distance from WDW. You should rent a car if you stay there.
I have stayed at Port Orleans - French Quarter. It is nice. It is a "smaller" resort which means your room is not very far away from the pool, the bus stop, or the food. You are going in mid April. April 8 to April 14 is Easter week. Easter week is a very busy time at WDW. Disney charges Peak Season rates on their rooms from now through April 14. WDW charges regular season rates after April 14. If you are going to WDW from April 15 or later, I would stay at the Port Orleans French Quarter. If you are arriving bedfore April 15, I would chose Holiday Inn. You don't spend that much time in your room (really) LOL. You want a clean room with a pool.
If you stay outside of WDW, you really do need a car. Bus shuttles are OK, but they run on their schedules, not yours, and certainly not the 18 mo old. LOL If you stay at a WDW resort, they have free busses throughout their property. You will not need a car. Also, if your stay on property, WDW has what they call Magical Express (ME), they take you from the airport and bring you to your room.
The following is a joke - They take your family and anybody else they can grab. Shove them on a bus, stick 'em in a room and then charge higher rates at their hotels. While they are at it, they grab your luggage and it magiclly appears in your room! Of course, you have no other type of transportation, so you eat breakfast, lunch and dinner at their overpriced restaurants. LOL. Sorry, I just could not help myself. Heh, heh.
But really, they shuttle you and your family and your luggage for free to your resort. Saves you the expense of using a Mears shuttle. Disney will also shuttle you back to the airport when you are leaving. You need to set this up before you arrive.
As seen on allearsnet.com
Disney's Magical Express must be booked at least 10 days prior to arrival through disneyworld.com, Disney Reservation Center by calling 407-W-DISNEY or a travel agent. Be sure to have your Arriving Flight Number and time into the Orlando International Airport as well as your Departing Flight Number and time out of the Orlando International Airport as well as the name of the airlines you are flying. We HIGHLY recommend booking this service a minimum of 6 weeks in advance
Anyways, staying onsite saves you from renting a car or using Mears shuttles. You also have the $10 per day that WDW charges you to park at their theme parks. Parking at the hotels is free. You also get to use the WDW transportation, you can charge things to your room, you can get the souvenirs and other packages you buy sent to your hotel. Wdw opens one of their parks one hour early for only their resort guest . WDW also extends their evening hours by 3 hours at one of their parks for only their resort guests. So staying onsite had advantages.
If you got the money, (who does?) staying at the deluxe resorts is great. They are very nice places but they have GREAT locations. The Polynesian is great with kids and it is on the monorail to the Magic Kingdom. The Yacht and Beach Club has the best resort pool on property. It really is a mini water park. WDW requires you show your room key from the resort to use the pool. It is located within easy walking distance from EPCOT and Disney Studios. The Beach Club seems more kid friendly. The Yacht club seems more formal.
If you buy the "vacation package" - rooms at rack rate and at least one day admission- you can add on the Disney Dining Plan. The plan allows you one counter service meal, one snack and one complete sit down meal. It is a lot of food though and you might have difficulty getting reservations at this late date. If you book through AAA, they can get a small discount off the rack rate and still allow you to use the meal plan.
AT WDW, they offer (charges a lot actually - heh heh heh, oops, sorry) in room baby sitters. There are several services if you'd rather have the babysitter come to your room. Reservations for these services are necessary. Rates and other special requirements vary by service.
Fairy Godmothers
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I've used them and it was great. Allowed the adults to "get away" for the evening. Have a nice meal or go dancing or go drinking (I know. I know - but there Is drinking at WDW) or go to Pleasure Island or buy gifts for Christmas or go on thrill rides together or just have some quiet time. Yes, quiet time AHHH. A stroll on the property is nice.
WDW is family fieindly to the extreme. Every park is designed for the family of all ages. Certainly the Magic Kingdom is what most people think of when they hear Disney. (The Dumbo attraction is slow loading - always a big line - do this first) However, the other 3 parks have many things that a family can enjoy also. As you will read from almost eveyone, you can not possibly see everything at WDW in one week. You will need to plan. Get a guide book (WDW for families, the Unofficial guide, the Official guide, Passporters etc.) that you feel comfortable with. You can get them from the library also. Read up on things on the internet at allearsnet or wdwinfo or mousesavers or the DIS boards. You will need to decide what you want to see. You will read many times the following (hint, LOL) :
Get to the park early, get on the busy attractions early, take a break in the afternoon, return to the park in the late afternoon or early evening.
If you don't like that hint then you can go to the parks late, try to see eveything in one day even if it kills you, get cranky and overtired then go to the room and collapse - then repeat this everyday. LOL. Sorry, sarcasm just keeps slipping in.
Make use of fast pass. Make use of the "baby swap" so both adults can see and ride the attractions.
The 18 month old isn't going to remember much but the kid will have a great time. There are many loud noises in the shows. attractions and the fireworks that can overwhelm the kids. The kids might want autographs. Bring an autograph book and a thick magic marker type pen. The characters have a difficult time trying to grasp the thin barreled pens. The characters set up at specific locations and you can get a list of them at the park or hotel.
At the World Showcase at Epcot, they have KidCot where the kids get to make a mask, get their "passport" stamped and other kid stuff. My kids loved it and I got some time to shop. Hehehe.
Rent a stroller or bring your own. Don't leave valuables in the stroller if it is out of your sight. Sometimes your stroller is taken by accident (all Disney strollers look the same. heh heh) but sometmes the stroller is taken on purpose. Human nature being what it is, even thieves go to WDW. Tie something unique to your stroller so you can recognize it from a distance. Cast members are assigned to hide your stroller when you go into a show. Since they all look the same, it doesn't take much skill to hide them. (Sorry, that sarcasm thing again) Actually the cast members park the strollers in neat rows. They WILL move your stroller. They will also move the other 100 strollers that are parked there. So, tie a balloon, a scarf and flag, anything that easily identifies your stroller from the rest. If you rent, save your receipt. If you go to another park that day, just show your receipt and you won't have to pay again for that day.
Get your tickets before you arrive. WDW charges slightly higher prices at the parks compared to buying them before you arrive. Get the park hopper option also. Some parks open early. Some parks close late. The park hopper will allow you to change parks during the day. AAA offers discounts. Maple Leaf tickets offers a small discount also.
Kissimmee is mostly chain hotels, chain motels, chain restaurants and chain stores in the WDW area. Certainly away from WDW, Kissimmee is a nice place but it is overwhelmed with the presence of WDW and the tourists they bring. Is it worth going to? - not really.
Bring 2 pairs of comfortable walking shoes. Bring a cheap poncho for everyone and bring one for the stroller. Gotta keep that dry too. Start practicing evasive manuvers with the stroller. Some guest seem to think that they should just suddenly stop right in front of you. It happens ALL the time. Some guests see you as part of an obstacle course and will do almost anything to get ahead of you. (Then complain if you accidently hit them) Then we have the all time favorite - let's exit the attraction, exit the gift store and then stop right at the exit door and block everyone else because we are special and the chosen few. You need to practice tight turns, sudden stops, and pushing it in tight narrow areas.
Oh yeah, your on vacation. Don't stress on the little things. When the kids find out the there a millions of little lizards in all the bushes, they will spend a lifetime watching them.Everything grinds to a halt.
Remember you paid a lot of money to go to WDW and gosh darn it - the kids will have fun if they want to or not . LOL. Have fun, just keep smiling.
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